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[IAFG]

i don't get who would dump someone she was living with without an exit strategy/moving out.

It happens way too often, and I don't get it. If I ever move in with a woman again, I'm not going to be on the lease.

it makes me think she has a plan to live elsewhere.

also, better to be the one on the lease and kick her out.

[d34d9823]

Dude, seriously, she's got you by the balls. You either need to kick her out or leave yourself. Taking a break isn't a bad thing. Doing it in the same apartment is madness.

[lostjake]

3rd person is my friend. We all moved to DC from TX.

Prime suspect.

[BigFatPanda]

3rd person is my friend. We all moved to DC from TX.

Prime suspect.

Or maybe jr8966's next gf

[09042014]

i don't get who would dump someone she was living with without an exit strategy/moving out.

It happens way too often, and I don't get it. If I ever move in with a woman again, I'm not going to be on the lease.

it makes me think she has a plan to live elsewhere.

also, better to be the one on the lease and kick her out.

No, it's better to be able to pack up and leave. Otherwise I might run into a situation where she's pleading about not being able to find a place, and what am I going to do call the cops? I'm not even sure if it's legal to boot her, esp if she was paying rent.

[holydonkey]

Agree with everyone saying get her to move out.

[IAFG]

No, it's better to be able to pack up and leave. Otherwise I might run into a situation where she's pleading about not being able to find a place, and what am I going to do call the cops? I'm not even sure if it's legal to boot her, esp if she was paying rent.

i would take her shit to a friend's house. yeah she could call the cops but will she really have the patience and will to fight you on it?

[09042014]

No, it's better to be able to pack up and leave. Otherwise I might run into a situation where she's pleading about not being able to find a place, and what am I going to do call the cops? I'm not even sure if it's legal to boot her, esp if she was paying rent.

i would take her shit to a friend's house. yeah she could call the cops but will she really have the patience and will to fight you on it?

Girls live for that shit.

[WWAD]

i don't get who would dump someone she was living with without an exit strategy/moving out.

It happens way too often, and I don't get it. If I ever move in with a woman again, I'm not going to be on the lease.

it makes me think she has a plan to live elsewhere.

also, better to be the one on the lease and kick her out.

No, it's better to be able to pack up and leave. Otherwise I might run into a situation where she's pleading about not being able to find a place, and what am I going to do call the cops? I'm not even sure if it's legal to boot her, esp if she was paying rent.

So true. Moved out once over the weekend while the gf was away and didn't even leave info. She wanted space, she got it.

[jmhendri]

Agree with everyone saying get her to move out.

Start acting creepy, stop cleaning and bathing, maybe take a leak on her bed. She'll move out of her own volition.

[Bert]

i don't get who would dump someone she was living with without an exit strategy/moving out.

It happens way too often, and I don't get it. If I ever move in with a woman again, I'm not going to be on the lease.

Actually, don't put her on these lease. To much of a headache being the one that needs to move out.

EDIT: and now that I have finished catching up, never mind that. I have done my share of midnight moves to get out of bad situations when I wasn't the one on the lease.

[Bert]

And now that I have caught up on this thread, I hate to say it, but this lady seems like more of a dead end the more you write. If she has emotional issues, then she needs to get over them, but you shouldn't let her problems destroy your future. She is doing what is best for her and you need to do the same. There will not be a "you two" until she is ready for it, and it would suck for you to have ruined your chances at law school because of her problems, while waiting for "you two" again.

EDITED a couple times for spelling/clarity.

[lostjake]

If your ex-girlfriend comes home at 3pm

Pay someone extremely hot to come over at 3:30 where you will give her a pair of cheap panties that you bought at walmart. She will say sorry for leaving these! And go out the door. This will cheer you up.

[oberlin08]

If you can afford it, find a place to stay like a really really cheap room somewhere that you can rent month to month, and live there until after the LSAT, and then after the test, come back deal with the ending/ended relationship, living situation etc.

It's really close to the test, getting her to move out might be really emotionally stressful.

[Dr. Strangelove]

OP, do what you think is right BUT don't let her control you.

[romothesavior]

My girlfriend and I (of 4 years) broke up about three weeks before the LSAT. This girl was the one... or so I thought. I had started saving money for the ring, she was gonna come with me to law school, etc. Our breakup was pretty tough, and it was even tougher because she started seeing some guy just a few weeks later (obviously our four years together meant a lot to her ).

The bottom line is this: girls are gonna come and go. This LSAT score is going to determine your law school, and that is something that will affect you forever. I know it is very hard to study for the LSAT when your whole personal life is in limbo, but try viewing the LSAT and law school in general as an "escape" from these hard times in your life. Quite honestly, moving down to St. Louis and starting law school represents a "fresh start" for me, and I get to put all the heartache and memories aside and move on with my life. If you look at law school the same way, perhaps it will serve as some motivation.

[pugalicious]

edit: posted in wrong forum. am an idiot.

[lostjake]

After said hot girl leaves tell your ex its her turn to wash the sheets. You should do this 2 days before the test. Think about it from now until then, laughing in your mind. This will feed you. This will make you stronger.

[Marionberry]

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[bceagles182]

My girlfriend and I (of 4 years) broke up about three weeks before the LSAT. This girl was the one... or so I thought. I had started saving money for the ring, she was gonna come with me to law school, etc. Our breakup was pretty tough, and it was even tougher because she started seeing some guy just a few weeks later (obviously our four years together meant a lot to her ).

The bottom line is this: girls are gonna come and go. This LSAT score is going to determine your law school, and that is something that will affect you forever. I know it is very hard to study for the LSAT when your whole personal life is in limbo, but try viewing the LSAT and law school in general as an "escape" from these hard times in your life. Quite honestly, moving down to St. Louis and starting law school represents a "fresh start" for me, and I get to put all the heartache and memories aside and move on with my life. If you look at law school the same way, perhaps it will serve as some motivation.

This is pretty much a carbon copy of what happened with me and I'd give the same advice.

[IAFG]

seriously OP i don't think you will be ready for this test in June.

[romothesavior]

Also, tell the girl to shit or get off the pot. Don't let her call the shots. She wants some personal/girl time? Fine. But tell her to GTFO if she wants to do it. BE A MAN!

[bceagles182]

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=2203214746

[kittenmittons]

Listen to The Mountain Goats - No Children
Fuck someone else
Fuck the LSAT
????
Profit

[beach_terror]

Listen to The Mountain Goats - No Children

hahahaha, that song is win.