(popping in because I see myself mentioned)dj9i27 wrote:I know Alexandros and I have had this discussion of BigLaw hours and other opportunities we bought up the idea of Med School compared to LS/BigLaw. Personally, I am 90% LS at this point and 10% Med (dwindling everyday) the way I look at it, Med School has the short end of the stick for a long time in regards to pay and hours. Med is more debt, longer, residency is at least 4 years and you'll make 70grand if you're lucky working hours that make BigLaw look like a walk in the park. Not everyone here is considering these two, but in my case LS is actually the much nicer route opposed to Med.dontsaywhatyoumean wrote:Yes, I suppose the ceiling is much higher. I don't want to work more than 50 hours a week though.dj9i27 wrote:Some BigLaw partners make like 1.5 million.... Just don't dread the hours.dontsaywhatyoumean wrote:Engineers pros:
Salary
4 year degree only
Less debt
Easier to get into
Better job market
I have my doubts some days
I just mean, there are so many other things I enjoy doing, and a relationship also takes time.
After 200k (CAD, so like 140 USD), what's the return on my happiness (personally)?
I don't think a mansion and a super nice sports car is going to make me significantly happier than a large house and a bmw.
I could only see myself working a ton of hours if it was more fun than what else I'd do with my time, and I was single. Otherwise I think it's really easy to drift a part in a relationship. I don't really believe in a relationship if I'm only seeing the other person for an hour a day.
(Not aiming for corporate law.)
/sorry slight rant, but just trying to figure things out too.
I'd be okay working bitch hours for a few years to develop a nest egg, I'm single so it is different in my case as well.
Dontsaywhatyoumean - I agree with you completely, and I've struggled with this a lot as well. I am also pretty opposed to a career in corporate law (for that and other reasons) and, if I ended up in biglaw after graduation (which a lot of people do so I realize I probably will), I'd want to have a clear exit strategy. Personally, I'm fairly young and I can't imagine I'd be having a family before 30 anyways. In that sense, I don't see a few years in BigLaw as enormously detrimental to my ability to have a relationship / family life / etc. in the long-term. And, when I consider my unicorn-ish long-term goals, it wouldn't make sense to be deterred by the prospect of having to work crazy, unpleasant hours for a little while - I mean, I don't think anyone goes into law looking for a 9-5 job.
But yeah, I'm with you completely. Also been having second thoughts. I think looking at everything very closely and critically is a good approach when it comes to a decision like this.