So after lurking for quite a bit in the legal employment section of this nifty site, I came across the term “lifestyle firm” repeatedly. I think I remember seeing that these big firms support a healthier work-life balance, whilst also paying market, or near market. But my big question is what does that “healthier work-life balance” look like in reality? I understand that it’s healthier relative to more traditionally soul-crushing big firms, but is the difference so significant that you could actually enjoy working at these firms for several years? Or is it just that the misery is slightly more bearable and your soul is more pounded rather than crushed?

I was under the impression that only workaholics could enjoy working in big law, but I’m getting the impression that these firms create working conditions that are more pleasant for a broader band of lawyer types. I’m not thinking these firms are on a 40 hour work-week level of comfortability, but something that the typical hard-working Law student/lawyer would be able to handle without being burned out and exiting ASAP.
Also do these sorts of firms exist in NYC? Or are they just on the west coast/secondary markets?