I want some comments on this theory I'm going to put forth. As a disclaimer, you might be offended by what I'm about to suggest. Don't be. I consider you all to be intelligent, resilient and hard working individuals. Nonetheless, I'm sure I'll probably piss off and offend a lot of people with this post so...here goes!
Theory:
Perhaps the people in big law just simply aren't used to working in a grueling environment. Follow me for a second here. From my understanding, competitive firms hire students from pretty good law schools right? And generally students at good law schools are those with a good level of intelligence and educational background. And its no secret that people who fit in that category generally tend to be those that had a decently good upbringing. I'm not saying everyone in big law was born with a silver spoon in their mouth with a Kardashian-esque wealth attached to their name. But you more than likely weren't dodging bullets on your way to your inner city school, studying late at night with a flash light because the electricity went off again after a long evening of caring for your 5 brothers and sisters because your mom works 16 hours a day to afford the Salvation Army clothes and payless shoes on your feet. Dig me? So is it possible that a lot of people in big law just simply aren't used to getting their asses worked? I was blessed enough to grow up in a home with two parents, a roof over my head and food over my plate. However, I've experienced what its like to work 12 hours/day in the summer doing monotonous yard work and other tasks while we were slave drove (I'm black so that's PC) by some a-hole who talked to us like dogs. Probably was even harsher because most of my coworkers were Mexicans and I think he assumed we all didn't speak English. My TWO week paycheck was $525 after taxes and I felt like I was loaded when I got that paycheck. I find it hard to believe that I'm going to sit in a cozy office somewhere making exponentially more than that and think to myself, "Wow this is miserable." And that's where my theory stems from. I can't wrap my head around making $100k+/year or even $80k/year and thinking "Wow this job bleeping sucks. I'm so miserable here."
Am I saying I'd love it? No. I can't answer that. Am I saying there isn't an intense amount of pressure and stress in big law that's entirely unique to that of a field laborer? Absolutely not. But I am saying that if the 'misery' of this profession comes from the hours worked? Then I think I'll be A-Ok. My philosophy is if I can bust ass working 12hrs/day under the hot sun doing physical labor for pennies on the dollar and not be 'miserable', then I fail to see how working 12 hours a day in a cozy office setting making assassination money is gonna be the straw that breaks the camel's back.
Perhaps I'm entirely misguided and the misery of the law profession comes from something else. If so, PLEASE enlighten me. I am not here to tell you you're wrong, combat you or belittle your experience and make you feel like less than. I don't think I'm better than anyone or that those that have said the law profession is grueling are 'weak' or anything like that.