Up and down these (and other) forums I constantly see several variations of the phrase “don’t go to law school unless you want to be a lawyer/practice law.” But what does that actually mean? What does it mean to be a lawyer? I ask not because I’m unfamiliar with the legal world, (I myself have been working as a T&E paralegal for 5 years now) but because aren’t there so many illustrations of what a lawyer is?
Aren’t there many ways one could want to be a lawyer? And I’m not just referring to areas of legal practice. Can’t part of wanting to be a lawyer be that you want to wear business suits and have an office

? What about being able to offer free legal advice to your family? I used to be subscribe to the notion that practicing law was the only reason to even think about law school, but what about all the other stuff that can come along with it?
Basically, I just want to hear what “being a lawyer” means to you. Maybe the definition has even changed for you over time.