This. Two of my best law school friends and I share our grades when we were feeling particularly bummed out or proud; we know this info stays in our circle and legitimately value each other's intelligence. Another good friend guessed correctly that I had the top score in one class, though: similarly to the above, we had been drinking, and I didn't maintain my poker face when they flat out said they were sure I got it.beepboopbeep wrote:That having been said, two of my closest 1L friends know my grades down to the hundred of a decimal. We were pretty drunk (or at least I was), and it's definitely not a conversation that would've happened without alcohol. I don't really regret it. It's nice to be able to have conversations about OCI/clerking/etc with people who actually know your situation. But I would be DAMN sure that you trust someone to 1) not let your grades affect their opinion of you (for better or worse), and 2) not tell others what you got, before you share your grades with anyone. Conversations with anyone else should never pass the point of disappointed/not disappointed - that answer is particularly good because you have no idea if someone would be disappointed with top 30% or happy about being median.
There less tension in our group compared to the fulltime program, though: There are people who want law review and to be top students in our group, and parents who are happy to not fall below median. As a result, it feels a bit more grounded because there are people who don't put so much weight on external signs of success. It helps that many of the older students are very senior level and accomplished, so their intelligence is proven.