Yeah, I completely get that hiring a full time caretaker is prohibitive for many. And if people make it work, then good for them. Your point about people making up for distractions etc at other times of day makes sense (seems miserable, but I understand why people do it).namefromplace wrote: ↑Fri Jun 17, 2022 2:14 amYou seem to have a kind of warped perspective of how work and caretaking actually function. For a lot of people, taking care of kids/parents/pets doesn't take up all of the time they have at home. The thing being taken care of needs to have someone around in case they need something, but kids, elderly, and pets can be pretty chill throughout the day (not all of them, of course). A parent working from home can make sure their kids are fed and not doing anything crazy without having to take up too much time from their day.
At the same time, working from home does not take up all of the time that someone has at home. Sure, you're spending most of your day focused on work, but you're not locked in an airtight room the whole day. You are accessible to your family and can hear if there's a commotion. If there's a lot of distractions on a given day, you may be a little less productive. But plenty of people are willing to put in extra hours at other times of the day to catch up.
The sort of inescapable work meetings you are talking about are pretty rare for a lot of attorneys. They're also usually scheduled far in advance, making it easy for caretakers to find someone to watch their family while the meeting is going on.
Of course, working from home while caretaking is not ideal, but it's an option that works for a lot of people. And, believe it or not, a lot of people can't afford a full-time caretaker.
My concern is with the bolded bits above. Again, the pandemic showed that WFH and having kids at home don’t mix well for the huge numbers of people for whom child care requires actual care. And the second bolded passage very much depends, but there are plenty of legal jobs where those kinds of commitments are common and not necessarily scheduled far in advance.
(The above is also kind of backing away from the idea that WFH is compatible with needing to be present for some particularly kind of needy or vulnerable party, which is what I was responding to. Making sure your healthy independent kids are fed periodically is different from caring for a kid with a seizure disorder, for instance.)
Anyway, like I said, it doesn’t matter because I’m not hiring anyone. I think a lot of legal employers would be skeptical about/unhappy with someone WFH with kids at home without childcare - again, depending on the nature of the job - which is why I was struck by the statement that someone would only go into the office 2-3x/wk for family reasons. But of course it’s the poster’s prerogative to organize their work life in the way that works for them/their family and more power to them.