People tell me I should feel proud Forum
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lukertin

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People tell me I should feel proud
Because I graduated from law school. Because it was a "hard three years" and because I pulled a "180" from engineering to law.
But, I don't feel a thing. Neither positive nor negative. I don't have any feeling about it whatsoever. I've had about a month to brood over this, and my feelings about it haven't changed.
Is this normal?
But, I don't feel a thing. Neither positive nor negative. I don't have any feeling about it whatsoever. I've had about a month to brood over this, and my feelings about it haven't changed.
Is this normal?
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hiima3L

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
Do you have a job lined up?
This may or may not explain everything.
This may or may not explain everything.
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lukertin

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shock259

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
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Also, people that don't know anything about law school say a lot of weird things about it.
Also, people that don't know anything about law school say a lot of weird things about it.
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lukertin

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
That's Amumu, the Sad Mummy.
- Ded Precedent

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
I don't think I've ever really felt proud about anything in my entire life. I feel like this is normal for a lot of us.
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lukertin

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
Haha, sucks!f7u12 wrote:Minus the soul-crushing debt.Ded Precedent wrote:I don't think I've ever really felt proud about anything in my entire life. I feel like this is normal for a lot of us.
- manofjustice

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
Yes. Enjoy your fucking job and stop whining so much.lukertin wrote:Because I graduated from law school. Because it was a "hard three years" and because I pulled a "180" from engineering to law.
But, I don't feel a thing. Neither positive nor negative. I don't have any feeling about it whatsoever. I've had about a month to brood over this, and my feelings about it haven't changed.
Is this normal?
- Dr. Review

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
Merged with foreveralone, which is appropriate for him.lukertin wrote:That's Amumu, the Sad Mummy.
- jkpolk

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
All meaning is ascribed, brother. Color the world.lukertin wrote:Because I graduated from law school. Because it was a "hard three years" and because I pulled a "180" from engineering to law.
But, I don't feel a thing. Neither positive nor negative. I don't have any feeling about it whatsoever. I've had about a month to brood over this, and my feelings about it haven't changed.
Is this normal?
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lukertin

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
Don't tell me what to do, sir.manofjustice wrote:Yes. Enjoy your fucking job and stop whining so much.
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NotMyRealName09

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
Yes. I experienced the exact same thing. My family was so proud, wanted to celebrate this huge accomplishment, and I felt no relief. They didn't understand - they thought I should be very proud.lukertin wrote:Because I graduated from law school. Because it was a "hard three years" and because I pulled a "180" from engineering to law.
But, I don't feel a thing. Neither positive nor negative. I don't have any feeling about it whatsoever. I've had about a month to brood over this, and my feelings about it haven't changed.
Is this normal?
Is it because passing the bar is the true "end point" of your legal education? That was it for me - school wasn't over, I just switched from law school classes to Barbri. If anything, Barbri was more intensive than my last year of law school, so getting my degree was not the end - an important step, but not the end.
Put another way - the end of law school lifted no weight off my shoulders, so I felt no different.
- Broseidon

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
Agree with the above poaster about the bar and this. Everything I've done in my life that could be considered an "accomplishment" as always been something that was planned out and expected to happen.Ded Precedent wrote:I don't think I've ever really felt proud about anything in my entire life. I feel like this is normal for a lot of us.
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lukertin

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
That might explain a lot, actually. Thanks for your insight!NotMyRealName09 wrote:Is it because passing the bar is the true "end point" of your legal education? That was it for me - school wasn't over, I just switched from law school classes to Barbri. If anything, Barbri was more intensive than my last year of law school, so getting my degree was not the end - an important step, but not the end.
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Younger Abstention

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
I felt more pride from events that occurred as a result of things I did while in law school than actually graduating which was inevitable at any halfway decent school. I.e., not all things I did necessarily but as examples: making law review, getting a biglaw job, publishing a paper, graduating with latin honors, transferring schools, etc. Those are all things not every single person who enters law school eventually achieves (like graduation).
I guess my pride from actually graduating vested as soon as I was admitted to a T25 school -- because no one fails out.
I guess my pride from actually graduating vested as soon as I was admitted to a T25 school -- because no one fails out.
- cinephile

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
This is really sad. You guys have never been proud of anything you've done? It doesn't have to be something others see as an accomplishment, but like you never got in shape to run a marathon or overcame some sort of phobia like public speaking or anything like that?Broseidon wrote:Agree with the above poaster about the bar and this. Everything I've done in my life that could be considered an "accomplishment" as always been something that was planned out and expected to happen.Ded Precedent wrote:I don't think I've ever really felt proud about anything in my entire life. I feel like this is normal for a lot of us.
- FeelTheHeat

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
YOU'LL ENJOY IT AND YOU'LL LIKE IT, FUCKERlukertin wrote:Don't tell me what to do, sir.manofjustice wrote:Yes. Enjoy your fucking job and stop whining so much.
- jkpolk

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
one of you must have scored a really hot slam at some pointcinephile wrote:This is really sad. You guys have never been proud of anything you've done? It doesn't have to be something others see as an accomplishment, but like you never got in shape to run a marathon or overcame some sort of phobia like public speaking or anything like that?
- Broseidon

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
Again, it's what I expect of myself breh.polkij333 wrote:one of you must have scored a really hot slam at some pointcinephile wrote:This is really sad. You guys have never been proud of anything you've done? It doesn't have to be something others see as an accomplishment, but like you never got in shape to run a marathon or overcame some sort of phobia like public speaking or anything like that?
- jkpolk

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
what about taking a huge pot off some boomer tourist who doesnt deserve to keep the heron print Hawaiian shirt on his backBroseidon wrote:Again, it's what I expect of myself breh.polkij333 wrote:one of you must have scored a really hot slam at some pointcinephile wrote:This is really sad. You guys have never been proud of anything you've done? It doesn't have to be something others see as an accomplishment, but like you never got in shape to run a marathon or overcame some sort of phobia like public speaking or anything like that?
- AZN MegaPoaster

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Re: People tell me I should feel proud
Get the hell out of here with that existentialist claptrap.polkij333 wrote:All meaning is ascribed, brother. Color the world.lukertin wrote:Because I graduated from law school. Because it was a "hard three years" and because I pulled a "180" from engineering to law.
But, I don't feel a thing. Neither positive nor negative. I don't have any feeling about it whatsoever. I've had about a month to brood over this, and my feelings about it haven't changed.
Is this normal?