You can walk into Charlie Trotter's and drop $500 every night of the year and not break a sweat. No, you can't toast the Union victory with an 1865 Chateau Lafite-Rothschild or two every night at $18,000 a bottle, but hell, if you want to indulge even once a month, feel free. No, you can't max everything out every minute of every day, BUT SO WHAT? Under any reasonable definition, an income of $1M let's one live like a king.
Just for the sake of keeping the argument going. Here is a proposed budget for someone making $1M a year in NYC.
Pre-Tax Income $1M
Post-Tax Income (Including City/State Income tax): $500k
Minus 401k, Health Insurance, Life Insurance: $450k
Minus private school tuition for two kids: $390k
Minus nanny for said kids: $350k
Minus $10k/mo Mortgage: $220k
Minus other COL expenses for a family in an expensive city: $150k
Minus 100k/yr annual savings: $100k
Amount left to blow on champagne: 50k
And that's assuming no expensive divorce settlement.
So no, you can't really spend 18k in champagne a month making $1m a year.