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Cried accepting an offer

Post by Anonymous User » Thu Oct 08, 2015 5:34 pm

So I recently received an offer from my dream firm. However, I'm afraid the manner in which I accepted makes me look desperate. I cried when I received the phone call and accepted on the spot.

Should I be concerned?

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by FSK » Thu Oct 08, 2015 5:36 pm

No. Congrats. They probably understand, and your fate has loooong been out of the hands of a recruiter.
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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by timesnewboston » Thu Oct 08, 2015 5:47 pm

some serious fckn pansies on these forums

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by Winter is Coming » Thu Oct 08, 2015 5:52 pm

Anonymous User wrote:some serious fckn pansies on these forums
Pretty sure I'm gonna make my new shtick calling out anon abuse.

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by timesnewboston » Thu Oct 08, 2015 6:00 pm

twas I

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by IAmLawSchool » Thu Oct 08, 2015 6:00 pm

You're not real if you never shed a tear, my man. Congratulations.

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by rnoodles » Thu Oct 08, 2015 6:13 pm

hahaha this is awesome! Congratulations, OP! Well-deserved, I'm sure

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by A. Nony Mouse » Thu Oct 08, 2015 6:20 pm

There's nothing you can do about it now, OP, so just try to forget about it and don't let it make you awkward in the future.

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by Anonymous User » Thu Oct 08, 2015 6:27 pm

Desert Fox wrote:Yea this is supremely weird behavior and people will mercilessly shittalk you for it. Hopefully whoever you cried to will be a good person and not tell anyone. But I'd laugh so fucking hard about this.
OP here 8)

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by JusticeJackson » Thu Oct 08, 2015 6:40 pm

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by rpupkin » Thu Oct 08, 2015 6:42 pm

In the future, you'll learn that crying should be done alone at 10 p.m. in one's office, particularly when working at one's "dream firm."

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by TLSModBot » Thu Oct 08, 2015 6:54 pm

rpupkin wrote:In the future, you'll learn that crying should be done alone at 10 p.m. in one's office, particularly when working at one's "dream firm."
But dat 190K tho. We'll be drying our tears with ALL THAT MONEY

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by dixiecupdrinking » Thu Oct 08, 2015 7:10 pm

Think about it this way, that's the only time that law firm has ever made anyone that happy.

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by Mack.Hambleton » Thu Oct 08, 2015 7:12 pm

Was it tears of joy or sorrow

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by chingwoo » Thu Oct 08, 2015 8:07 pm

1. What a soft post.

2. Congragufuckinglations.

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

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Hahahahahahahahahaha

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by 84651846190 » Thu Oct 08, 2015 8:14 pm

Mack.Hambleton wrote:Was it tears of joy or sorrow
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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by bearsfan23 » Thu Oct 08, 2015 8:21 pm

rpupkin wrote:In the future, you'll learn that crying should be done alone at 10 p.m. in one's office, particularly when working at one's "dream firm."
How does this work in a shared office? Should I ask my officemate to leave if I need a good 10PM cry? Trying to prepare for the inevitable here

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by encore1101 » Thu Oct 08, 2015 8:24 pm

timesnewboston wrote:some serious fckn pansies on these forums

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by PoopNpants » Thu Oct 08, 2015 8:26 pm

congratz

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by Anonymous User » Thu Oct 08, 2015 8:32 pm

At the end of the day, this is a business. The entire role of the nightmare you've gone through is to furnish the queen bees with worker bees. While the gatekeepers are important, your career is going to be decided by the queen bees. All that matters is if they want to work with you, and trust you, which will be determined by your work, not whether they think you're a weirdo right now. Even what you do as a summer will be largely forgotten unless it's abysmal, because it's so trivial to the overall case/deal, and your summer will largely be a "do you suck" test. Instead of obsessing about every detail of these things, realize that your entire career right now is based on a yes/no questionnaire. It doesn't really matter if you are the #1 choice or the last one in. No one cares that Tom Brady was a 6th round pick. All that matters is what you do once you get there.
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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by PourMeTea » Thu Oct 08, 2015 8:33 pm

how obvious was it that you were crying?

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Re: Cried accepting an offer

Post by rpupkin » Thu Oct 08, 2015 8:35 pm

Anonymous User wrote:I know for a fact that I had some "no's" at my callback, and because I had been being harassed by a telemarketer with the same area code, started off my offer phone call asking why they're calling me and who they think they are.
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