MC Southstar wrote:Anonymous User wrote:Hi guys,
I have a callback interview scheduled soon at a large firm. I'm not a super-outgoing person and I am making myself pretty nervous about the whole process. I have a few questions:
1. Aside from looking at the firm's website, how do you guys prep for CBs?
2. Aside from saying, "I'm interested in litigation," how specific do you get when speaking about your career interests?
2. I'm not into sports -- do any other pop culture/ current events type of questions come up frequently?
3. Should females leave suit jackets on when eating lunch at the firm?
Thanks! I appreciate it

Men will automatically be innately doubtful of your ability to talk about sports if you talk about sports anyway as a woman. It's like begging and pleading for sexist thoughts to go into his head.
What the fuck is wrong with you? Get out of here.
OP:
I've been very successful at CBs. This is the way I do things, so it might not work for you (but it will). I'll give you some general pointers then address your questions.
You do not want a drop of pretension or arrogance in your presentation. Yesterday I saw a guy stomp into the administrative area after me with an arrogant smile on his face and tell the receptionist who he was here to see. She told him that person was on the 27th floor and to go up there and began to give instructions for how to get there. His response was to turn his back, walk away and say "Yeah. I used to work here." You do not want this. Let's re-do this in a good way:
You walk into the reception area with a warm smile and bright eyes. You don't stomp through like you own it; in fact, maybe you're a little unsure where to go, since this is your first time in the reception area. Say hello to the receptionist, ask them how their day is going, and make a situational comment (weather, how excited you are to step foot in the firm for the first time, how nice the lobby is). They'll ask if you want water; if you want water, get some. Use the bathroom, whatever.
This is, obviously, not the interview itself and not a hard and fast way to do things. But it's a general idea of how to approach the people you meet. What I do before walking into the building is visualize, in my head, the three qualities I want to portray when I meet with people. I adapt these, sometimes, before each interview, based on my perception of the person I'm going to meet with. For example, I always want to be warm and friendly, so I'll close my eyes imagine having a warm smile that seems happy and light-hearted. Then I'll practice making that smile. If I'm going to be meeting with a nerdy-seeming person, I'll think back to when I was a nerd and maybe even run through different little stories I can tell about myself to show what a nerd I am (my friends and I used to put LAN parties together; I loved the teamwork of building things in a group, but also the competitive aspect of playing games against each other = I'll be a good litigator). That said, if I'm meeting with the ex-captain of the football team and chair of the students' Republican committee, I'm not going to mention the fact that during 1L I lit a candle every night, meditated and looked at my prayer beads. I'll more likely talk about having non-law school friends with whom I could watch sports and get away from the academic environment momentarily to refresh myself, which helped me do as well as I did ( = I'll be able to remain focused during long hours).
Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion.
In terms of substantive prep for CBs, I like to have a few points from each interviewer's resume I can bring up. "That's right - and I know you also participate in white collar cases - do those tend to go hand-in-hand with the civil claims from the same client?" Or even as far as, "I saw you wrote a law journal article on x, how funny, I am interested in x prime and, early last semester, I did y!"
As for being interested in litigation, here are my favorite ways to show it. These are sort of stolen from my career services people: I love a teamwork environment; in my prior work experience, I did got the chance to bounce ideas back and forth off my coworkers and found my work product was improved simply by opening my mind up to the idea exchange between the parties." Make that one more personal, obviously. Or you like the discrete goals in litigation - the way your mind works, you tend to focus on one piece of the puzzle at a time (jig-saw puzzle story/analogy time?) - it makes sense to you to have a motion to dismiss be the biggest thing in the world and when it's over, it's gone, and it's time for discovery. Then summary judgment.
Re sports, people aren't going to ask you about sports. If you're at a lunch with two bros, they might start talking sports and it would be worth something to be able to participate. But you can score equally well by steering the conversation to something you know about and can be excited about. These guys aren't looking that you have sports knowledge, but rather that you can engage in an interesting and personal conversation. If you're into collecting marbles and can talk about it passionately, people will be interested. Excuse my candor, but last week I got laid by talking about how into Game of Thrones I am. The girl had never read a fantasy novel, and probably though it's weird and nerdy to do so, but because I was so enamored with the storyline and made it interesting - people love to see passion - she thought it was really cool when I told her about Tyrion Lannister's imprisonment with Lysa Ayrn.
Suit jackets while eating lunch. I'm a guy so I may not be able to answer. I've taken it off once and left it on once. I took it off when I was with two young associates who were super chill, but left it on when I was at a swankier place and noticed older guys around who were keeping theirs on. I think it's save to leave it on. Remember to un-button when you sit down. (keep in mind, talking from a guy's perspective so I may be missing The Rules here).
Good luck. My inspiration to go deep into this came from the "... please?" in your title. That emotion is pity. You don't want that from interviewers. So drop the needy attitude; if this thread were an interview, you want the title to be something like, "Interview Tips." Manners and politeness are exceedingly important, but not being a wuss is also important.
GLHF