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[270910]

If you've never had any interaction with the person, I can't imagine it would come across as anything but very weird and annoying.

[12262010]

wtf is wrong with people

[270910]

wtf is wrong with people

Hi booyakasha! Welcome to TLS! : )

[12262010]

wtf is wrong with people

Hi booyakasha! Welcome to TLS! : )

I hate humanity.

[Anonymous User]

is this bad form? just wanted to tell him i was very excited about joining his firm. i'm totally aware that this sounds 2L SA gunnerish, but i'm frankly not AIMING to be assigned on a project with him, he's a but-for cause of me picking this firm, and I just want to say hello.

hah, probably most of the junior associates have never worked with him.

I have to avoidimpulses like this. Don't do it. Go see him during the summer. Curb your enthusiasm for the time being.

[Anonymous User]

hah, i know 1 guy in this past SA class who got to work with a superstar by doing EXACTLY this, that PLUS he basically knocked on the superstars door during week 1 to say hello, and said he was available to work for him. He was the only one in our class who got to sit in on a deposition. What's funny is he's a really pleasant guy to be around, not gunnerish at all, but I sure as hell envied him because I was getting assignments from mid-level associates, with no partner face time whatsoever, for whatever that's worth.

Judgment call. In the end, becoming a successful lawyer is about so much more than being a high quality litigator, as counterintuitive as that sounds. Partners in all law firms work in clicks, midlevels work with the same cluster of partners, young associates pretty much are the same way, whoever you get along with naturally - you work with more and more.

[doyleoil]

I'm not going to say one way or the other, but I do think if OP goes this route, the e-mail should be peppered with hah's, lol's, and words in all CAPS. That way, he knows you're serious, but also relaxed and fun.

[Anonymous User]

I'm not going to say one way or the other, but I do think if OP goes this route, the e-mail should be peppered with hah's, lol's, and words in all CAPS. That way, he knows you're serious, but also relaxed and fun.

lol, hah, THAT'S FUNNY, lol.

[doyleoil]

I'm not going to say one way or the other, but I do think if OP goes this route, the e-mail should be peppered with hah's, lol's, and words in all CAPS. That way, he knows you're serious, but also relaxed and fun.

LOL, yes, email David Boies with an LOL, this will be awesome.

Anyone who's slept with his professor's wife will totally understand.

[yellowjacket2012]

I'm not going to say one way or the other, but I do think if OP goes this route, the e-mail should be peppered with hah's, lol's, and words in all CAPS. That way, he knows you're serious, but also relaxed and fun.

LOL, yes, email David Boies with an LOL, this will be awesome.

Anyone who's slept with his professor's wife will totally understand.

ouch. hell of a lawyer tho

[doyleoil]

I'm not going to say one way or the other, but I do think if OP goes this route, the e-mail should be peppered with hah's, lol's, and words in all CAPS. That way, he knows you're serious, but also relaxed and fun.

LOL, yes, email David Boies with an LOL, this will be awesome.

Anyone who's slept with his professor's wife will totally understand.

ouch. hell of a firm though.

that wasn't a slam - that dude is the shit

[Patriot1208]

I'm not going to say one way or the other, but I do think if OP goes this route, the e-mail should be peppered with hah's, lol's, and words in all CAPS. That way, he knows you're serious, but also relaxed and fun.

O ya, also make sure to say things like "I'm really happy I didn't get corsaired," "Dude, how often do you hit the those models and drank them bottles," and lastly "How is that sweet ass in the office? Which slut associate is the easiest to hit?"

[yellowjacket2012]

wow, david boies is an interesting guy, (wiki)

[Anonymous User]

OP here, well, did my first official kiss-ass move and shot a quick thank you note to "the man" at my to-be law firm (he's on the hiring committee, obviously, so I figured it wouldn't be too crazy so long as I kept the email short), within an hour I got an email back with a dinner invite @ his place when I'm down in the firm's city next weekend on something that my SO has going on down there. Yes, my SO does in fact have cause to be down there.

So much for controlling my impulses. Cannot believe my luck. For some context, this firm has a relatively small incoming class, so I wouldn't've tried this if I was going to a v10 NY firm.

[Objection]

OP here, well, did my first official kiss-ass move and shot a quick thank you note to "the man" at my to-be law firm (he's on the hiring committee, obviously, so I figured it wouldn't be too crazy so long as I kept the email short), within an hour I got an email back with a dinner invite @ his place when I'm down in the firm's city next weekend on something that my SO has going on down there. Yes, my SO does in fact have cause to be down there.

So much for controlling my impulses. Cannot believe my luck. For some context, this firm has a relatively small incoming class, so I wouldn't've tried this if I was going to a v10 NY firm.

Thus confirming my suspicion that, when looking for advice on TLS, you should take what the majority of people say to do and do the opposite.

Surprise: higher ups love lower levels with initiative.

Only on TLS is initiative and taking a minor risk seen as a bad thing.

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[jlockhart6]

OP here, well, did my first official kiss-ass move and shot a quick thank you note to "the man" at my to-be law firm (he's on the hiring committee, obviously, so I figured it wouldn't be too crazy so long as I kept the email short), within an hour I got an email back with a dinner invite @ his place when I'm down in the firm's city next weekend on something that my SO has going on down there. Yes, my SO does in fact have cause to be down there.

So much for controlling my impulses. Cannot believe my luck. For some context, this firm has a relatively small incoming class, so I wouldn't've tried this if I was going to a v10 NY firm.

Way to go! Def a brave move that paid off, good luck at the dinner!

[crazycanuck]

OP here, well, did my first official kiss-ass move and shot a quick thank you note to "the man" at my to-be law firm (he's on the hiring committee, obviously, so I figured it wouldn't be too crazy so long as I kept the email short), within an hour I got an email back with a dinner invite @ his place when I'm down in the firm's city next weekend on something that my SO has going on down there. Yes, my SO does in fact have cause to be down there.

So much for controlling my impulses. Cannot believe my luck. For some context, this firm has a relatively small incoming class, so I wouldn't've tried this if I was going to a v10 NY firm.

Thus confirming my suspicion that, when looking for advice on TLS, you should take what the majority of people say to do and do the opposite.

Surprise: higher ups love lower levels with initiative.

Only on TLS is initiative and taking a minor risk seen as a bad thing.

Frankly I was shocked so many people were opposed to this. I work at an accounting firm and it strongly encouraged for us to take the initiative and talk to managers and senior managers to get work and get to know them. It's how you get work. Taking the initiative on finding work makes you look AWESOME. Doesn't matter what kind of firm you work at. I guess this is just the inexperience of TLS talking.

[Objection]

OP here, well, did my first official kiss-ass move and shot a quick thank you note to "the man" at my to-be law firm (he's on the hiring committee, obviously, so I figured it wouldn't be too crazy so long as I kept the email short), within an hour I got an email back with a dinner invite @ his place when I'm down in the firm's city next weekend on something that my SO has going on down there. Yes, my SO does in fact have cause to be down there.

So much for controlling my impulses. Cannot believe my luck. For some context, this firm has a relatively small incoming class, so I wouldn't've tried this if I was going to a v10 NY firm.

Thus confirming my suspicion that, when looking for advice on TLS, you should take what the majority of people say to do and do the opposite.

Surprise: higher ups love lower levels with initiative.

Only on TLS is initiative and taking a minor risk seen as a bad thing.

Frankly I was shocked so many people were opposed to this. I work at an accounting firm and it strongly encouraged for us to take the initiative and talk to managers and senior managers to get work and get to know them. It's how you get work. Taking the initiative on finding work makes you look AWESOME. Doesn't matter what kind of firm you work at. I guess this is just the inexperience of TLS talking.

I guess it's true that lawyers tend to be very risk averse, but boy, TLS takes it to a whole new level.

[dooterdude11]

This is ridiculous. OP, I'm sure he took it as either flattering, a nice gesture, or both. What kind of douche would be bothered by an explicit display of respect from a new hire via email?

Angry internet trolls disregarded, I'm sure it did not come across as "weird" or "annoying."

[Stanford4Me]

This is ridiculous. OP, I'm sure he took it as either flattering, a nice gesture, or both. What kind of douche would be bothered by an explicit display of respect from a new hire via email?

Angry internet trolls disregarded, I'm sure it did not come across as "weird" or "annoying."

Yes it did.

[Objection]

This is ridiculous. OP, I'm sure he took it as either flattering, a nice gesture, or both. What kind of douche would be bothered by an explicit display of respect from a new hire via email?

Angry internet trolls disregarded, I'm sure it did not come across as "weird" or "annoying."

Yes it did.

Clearly, based on the outcome.

[Blindmelon]

This is ridiculous. OP, I'm sure he took it as either flattering, a nice gesture, or both. What kind of douche would be bothered by an explicit display of respect from a new hire via email?

Angry internet trolls disregarded, I'm sure it did not come across as "weird" or "annoying."

Yes it did.

Clearly, based on the outcome.

Next time write out a letter. Its more personal:

Dear lawyer, I <3 you. I want your babies. xoxoxo, your adoring fan.

Then seal the envelope with a kiss.

[Stanford4Me]

This is ridiculous. OP, I'm sure he took it as either flattering, a nice gesture, or both. What kind of douche would be bothered by an explicit display of respect from a new hire via email?

Angry internet trolls disregarded, I'm sure it did not come across as "weird" or "annoying."

Yes it did.

Clearly, based on the outcome.

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