Changing one's name ... Forum

[Anonymous User]

Hey Guys,

I'm about to enter law school and I have a really foreign-sounding east Indian name. I was wondering what your opinion is on getting a name change to something more American (i.e. swapping out my middle name for a more English name). I'm currently a professional in the engineering field, and I feel my name isn't an obstacle at all but then again I don't really interact with people/clients/customers ever. I feel this is a fleeting opportunity since it would be best to do this change right before law school so my future co-workers/peers would know and call me by my new, more "professional" name. Any thoughts on this?

EDIT: I think some Indian names are really simple and professional enough (like Arun, etc..). Unfortunately my first name is like 3 syllables. Nobody knows how to pronounce it. I'm not even sure myself because different ppl in my community say it different ways. Its really just awkward for everyone.

[bissey]

interesting... i just wanted to add that i think clients will call you mr. (last name) so your first name wont matter

[thalassocrat]

Is there an easier nickname for your given name?

[Anonymous User]

interesting... i just wanted to add that i think clients will call you mr. (last name) so your first name wont matter

Thats a good point, but I figured after a while they might start calling me by my first name. Also, I'd imagine that my coworkers (and classmates) would call me by my first name. Fortunately my last name, albeit foreign, isn't all too difficult to pronounce.

Is there an easier nickname for your given name?

A nickname that I presently go by? No. There is an English name that is somewhat similar to my current name, but I was instead thinking of adopting my dad's "professional" name. He travels around as a consultant in the oil industry and he goes by an (unofficial) English name. I figured it wouldn't be so random if I named myself after my dad.

[hds2388]

I mean, if you think it will help you succeed, and you don't mind, that's your choice. Personally, I would think that changing your name to "fit in" would be kind of selling out; no one needs to abandon something that links them to their heritage for the sake of phoenetic convinience. It is really your choice.

[Zapatero]

Why are you anonymous?

Don't change your name. I think the nickname idea is probably the best route. For example, if your name is Mohandas, just go by "Mo."

[fl0w]

i have a friend names shejal that goes by sam. if you want an "american" moniker then just pick what you like. no need for the official name change.

[Zapatero]

I have a friend name Raghu that goes by Ram. Everybody thinks he says "Ron," though, so he should probably rethink that.

[the lantern]

"What ever happened to good ole' American names like Dave, or Jim, or... Harold. Now that's a great name."

[thalassocrat]

I mean, if you think it will help you succeed, and you don't mind, that's your choice. Personally, I would think that changing your name to "fit in" would be kind of selling out; no one needs to abandon something that links them to their heritage for the sake of phoenetic convinience. It is really your choice.

See, that's what I normally think, but this kind of threw me off:

Unfortunately my first name is like 3 syllables. Nobody knows how to pronounce it. I'm not even sure myself because different ppl in my community say it different ways. Its really just awkward for everyone.

It's one thing if you're doing it because we stupid Americans can't pronounce it, but if even you're unsure, well... So that's why I suggested a nickname.

[Corsair]

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[rx3r]

I don't think it's necessary to officially change it. My boss has a foreign-sounding first name that he hardly ever uses. His business cards read Firstname "NicknameIuse" Lastname. Everyone calls him by his nickname and he's been around for decades. He signs his letters with his nickname. The letterhead does have his real name, but the confusion is usually minimal.

[Anonymous User]

Thanks for all the feedback guys.

Personally, I would think that changing your name to "fit in" would be kind of selling out; no one needs to abandon something that links them to their heritage for the sake of phoenetic convinience. It is really your choice.

Yeah I that's what my parents would say, but then again many waves of immigrants came here and changed their names to all sorts of things.

This thread feels like it should have an "Indian tech support guy with American name" joke in it.

I can't think of any at the moment, but there was a funny German commercial with a similar sort of concept:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VSdxqIBfEAw

I don't think it's necessary to officially change it.

I'm kind of leaning towards changing it officially ... its not like my middle name has any sort of purpose, and I'm still going to retain my first and last names ...

[kn6542]

Hey Guys,

I'm about to enter law school and I have a really foreign-sounding east Indian name. I was wondering what your opinion is on getting a name change to something more American (i.e. swapping out my middle name for a more English name). I'm currently a professional in the engineering field, and I feel my name isn't an obstacle at all but then again I don't really interact with people/clients/customers ever. I feel this is a fleeting opportunity since it would be best to do this change right before law school so my future co-workers/peers would know and call me by my new, more "professional" name. Any thoughts on this?

EDIT: I think some Indian names are really simple and professional enough (like Arun, etc..). Unfortunately my first name is like 3 syllables. Nobody knows how to pronounce it. I'm not even sure myself because different ppl in my community say it different ways. Its really just awkward for everyone.

If you want to do it, do it. It's really not a big deal and you might be surprised how common it is. Nearly everyone I went to HS with was operating under an assumed American name, since no one could ever pronounce their birth names. Many of them changed the name legally, and are still going by the American name.
I also have a friend in a primarily male dominated art field who legally changed her first name to something that is pretty gender neutral so it wouldn't influence how people judged her work. It was very easy for her to do.
I'm sure you can find the requirements easily online.

[rx3r]

What are you going to pick as a new name, out of curiosity?

[Anonymous User]

What are you going to pick as a new name, out of curiosity?

"Sam" --> simple, 1-syllable, all-american. I could play high school football with a name like that. Whaddya guys think?

[Anonymous User]

If you want to do it, do it. It's really not a big deal and you might be surprised how common it is. Nearly everyone I went to HS with was operating under an assumed American name, since no one could ever pronounce their birth names. Many of them changed the name legally, and are still going by the American name.
I also have a friend in a primarily male dominated art field who legally changed her first name to something that is pretty gender neutral so it wouldn't influence how people judged her work. It was very easy for her to do.
I'm sure you can find the requirements easily online.

Thanks. Yeah I knew this russian jewish guy who is a doctor who changed his russian sounding name to something more american-jewish. to help with his career

[kn6542]

What are you going to pick as a new name, out of curiosity?

"Sam" --> simple, 1-syllable, all-american. I could play high school football with a name like that. Whaddya guys think?

Sam is a nice name.

[Renzo]

The middle name thing isn't a bad idea, but I really don't think it's necessary. Plenty of people go by names that are not their legal names. If there's something you like, just go with it.