Roger Podactor wrote:I got to say I don't exactly agree with everything said here. A lot of you all are coming off as haters honestly. First and foremost, you can't count OP's student loans; because of PSLF it is really equivalent to giving 10% of your income for 10 years. Those loans aren't really a factor. In 10 years, they're gone. And only from a series of neglible payments.
Moreover, you that are harping on OP's credit card debt and car loans may not be considering OP's starting salary. Jag pays a lot, second really only to big law. Jag is really pretty much on the same financial level as big law, with way less stress and work hours. OP makes 100k plus a year, just starting out! His credit card debt and all other unsecured debt are below 50k. Meaning he could EASILY pay off that unsecured debt and even the secured debt in his FIRST year of work. I agree that this debt is something to be concerned with, but when you're making as much money as OP it really doesn't matter.
Bolded is where I disagree. This OP has been on student loans for three years and has financed two vehicles, financed a $2,500 wedding band (you have to be in pretty bad financial shape to need to finance something that's $2,500), and racked up $30k in credit card debt. What's he going to do when he has an actual income?
I'm just trying to emphasize and attack the decisionmaking part of the whole thing that led to his predicament. There's a rationalization process that is behavioral and becomes ingrained if they don't get a wake-up call.
The OP here, I can assure you, is nowhere near the shitcannery of my brother (who I think was/is so bad with money that he traumatized me into constantly reading personal finance books). And I'm not Suzie Orman or Dave Ramsey who are pathologically and irrationally against any and all debt (I'm totally okay with his student loans and mortgage).
But what is similar between my brother and this OP is just bad decisionmaking supported by bad rationalization to support these bad decisions. His car is the easiest example for me because it's the same thing my brother always said with his cars. "Oh, it's underwater, I can't trade it in," "I can't take that car from her" (brother's GF was working PT and making like $10k/year with a $245 car payment which she was technically paying, but my brother was subsidizing a lot of other things, as I imagine might be the case here), "Oh, we didn't know we should only spend 10-20% on transportation." It's all a bunch of excuses to rationalize a bad decision.
So I'm just hoping to get a light bulb to go off that
this is a behavioral thing, not a numbers thing. If OP did all this while in school, WTF is he going to do when he has $100k income?
But to go back to the original question, which is to give him advice:
(1) Enroll in PAYE and scroll through this thread to figure out how to make that work most for you;
(2) Contribute to 401k/403b up to match;
(3) Lower fixed costs as much as you're comfortable with;
(4) Stop financing shit until you're out of debt;
(5) Use income and money saved from lower fixed costs to pay down debt;
(6) Pay highest interest rate loans first;
(7) Again, no financing shit until unsecured debt is paid off;
(8) Start reading about personal finance.