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- OhBoyOhBortles

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
Happened in my NW interview. Admissions officer called me and I apologized. She said not to worry, that it happens all the time. I was accepted so I don't think it hurt me. I certainly wouldn't withdraw.
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ymmv

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
Seppuku seems appropriate.
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Hand

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
ymmv wrote:Seppuku seems appropriate.
- bjsesq

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
For the longest time I thought harikari and seppuku were different and depended on the direction of the cut, and then a japanese buddy told me I was retarded and said they are the same thing.ymmv wrote:Seppuku seems appropriate.
- Mullens

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
Is there any benefit at all to withdrawing? I can't think of a single one.
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ymmv

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
Dat etymologically Chinese script confusion.bjsesq wrote:For the longest time I thought harikari and seppuku were different and depended on the direction of the cut, and then a japanese buddy told me I was retarded and said they are the same thing.ymmv wrote:Seppuku seems appropriate.
- DELG

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
I had an applicant cancel the interview I was supposed to do and apparently they got in anyway, despite expressly telling me they don't want to go
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Hand

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
Harakiri sounds a lot better though. Seppuko sounds like a beer brand.ymmv wrote:Dat etymologically Chinese script confusion.bjsesq wrote:For the longest time I thought harikari and seppuku were different and depended on the direction of the cut, and then a japanese buddy told me I was retarded and said they are the same thing.ymmv wrote:Seppuku seems appropriate.
- bjsesq

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
TO us it is, but harikari is the vulgar way of saying it.hereisonehand wrote:Harakiri sounds a lot better though. Seppuko sounds like a beer brand.ymmv wrote:Dat etymologically Chinese script confusion.bjsesq wrote:For the longest time I thought harikari and seppuku were different and depended on the direction of the cut, and then a japanese buddy told me I was retarded and said they are the same thing.ymmv wrote:Seppuku seems appropriate.
- DELG

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
Seppuku makes me think about bukkake
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Hand

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
why are you still alive to ask questions, wasn't the advice clearaad993 wrote:Benefit: If this is the only school you're waiting on and you also have no wait-lists, you can make a final decision over the next few days. Instead of waiting around for 2 weeks for rejection/purgatory/low merit aid?
- bjsesq

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
I don't understand why you would withdraw other than you have to give a thumbs up somewhere else before you expect a response, or you are just feeling sorry for yourself about something going wrong. Tell your friend to quit being a baby.
- bjsesq

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
Buffalo BillDELG wrote:Seppuku makes me think about bukkake
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Hand

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
it may be a sin in the eyes of the LORD but the law is probably silent on the matteraad993 wrote:No one is committing seppuku!!! is that even legal?hereisonehand wrote:why are you still alive to ask questions, wasn't the advice clearaad993 wrote:Benefit: If this is the only school you're waiting on and you also have no wait-lists, you can make a final decision over the next few days. Instead of waiting around for 2 weeks for rejection/purgatory/low merit aid?
- landshoes

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
You could just assume rejection and move on, mentally, without actually withdrawing.aad993 wrote:Benefit: If this is the only school you're waiting on and you also have no wait-lists, you can make a final decision over the next few days. Instead of waiting around for 2 weeks for rejection/purgatory/low merit aid?
This seems like an abnormal level of anxiety about being rejected. This friend should try self-care that has nothing to do with law school. Watch a movie. Buy an interesting snack. Take a walk. See friends. Things like that. Ride it out.
- rpupkin

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
Are you an alt of DeRascal?aad993 wrote:I don't know if you were trying to be helpful or not. But this actually makes the most sense.landshoes wrote: You could just assume rejection and move on, mentally, without actually withdrawing.
Make a decision as if you'd withdrawn. And then if you get rejected/waitlisted, nothing changes and you're ready to make a final commitment. And if not, then that's great! Cool beans. Thanks.
- landshoes

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
Yes, I was trying to be helpful. I genuinely think that distraction and detachment are both excellent strategies when one is feeling overwhelmed by one's ability to control a given outcome.aad993 wrote:I don't know if you were trying to be helpful or not. But this actually makes the most sense.landshoes wrote: You could just assume rejection and move on, mentally, without actually withdrawing.
Make a decision as if you'd withdrawn. And then if you get rejected/waitlisted, nothing changes and you're ready to make a final commitment. And if not, then that's great! Cool beans. Thanks.
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- chuckbass

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
Why would your friend apply and interview with a school if they weren't interested in attending?aad993 wrote:I don't know if you were trying to be helpful or not. But this actually makes the most sense.landshoes wrote: You could just assume rejection and move on, mentally, without actually withdrawing.
Make a decision as if you'd withdrawn. And then if you get rejected/waitlisted, nothing changes and you're ready to make a final commitment. And if not, then that's great! Cool beans. Thanks.
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FloridaCoastalorbust

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Re: Skype problem- reflects poorly on applicant, withdraw?
Withdraw. And write an extended apology to the school and all other schools applied to, explaining the mistake. Possible C&F issues otherwise.