
I recently sent out seat deposit "N" to school "X," but am expecting a decision from school "Y" in the coming days. If school "Y" doesn't get back to me soon, I risk losing seat deposit "N" if I do decide to opt out. Do you think I would irritate or antagonize school "Y" if I nicely asked them to notify me of their decision, if at all possible, by email rather than snailmail? (In a better world, while I was at it, I could prevail upon them the need to expedite their deliberations as well!!!) In the view of TLS posters, can I make this call to school "Y" without disgracing myself and damaging my prospects? Anyone hear of or have experience with a scenario like this? Come on guys, there are like two-hundred bucks on the line!!!!
Postscript: I wish school "Z" hadn't rejected me.