magicmagic wrote:fliptrip wrote:
Why do you both have to go to school now?
Interesting story. His dream was always going to law school, and about six months ago he encouraged me to start looking into law because I test well and decided I didn't want to pursue history grad school. So I took the LSAT and here we all are. Law was his dream and his plan first, and he doesn't want to delay it any longer.
Unfortunately, LP doesn't test well. He's very smart, writes great papers, has presented at historical conferences, and has legal experience, but yeah, the 160 is not the best. I don't think retakes would help much.
Could you talk about why you decided not to pursue history grad school? Also have you thought about a JD/PhD joint degree? I know this forum thinks that they're generally a waste of time and money, but you're young and intelligent. If you finish school with only a JD, you might feel trapped because you went down this path only because of your boyfriend. I know it sounds great now, but 5 or so years from now you might regret all of these choices. Having the PhD you otherwise wanted might keep some options open for you (also academics do respect JDs from what I've heard from former professors). UNLV has a limited offering of joint degrees, but a PhD in Higher Education Leadership or Master in Social Work might interest you.
I haven't thoroughly researched joint degrees and can't tell you with certainty that it would be a good idea for anyone, let alone you. But with all of these moving parts (recent grad, young love, major relocation, school below your numbers, boyfriend with worse numbers, angry future mother in law), you might want to keep a back door open. I know history departments are small, specialized and competitive, but your GPA and LSAT could open some doors for you. It could be worth your time to look at the history programs at the schools you've applied to, along with the ability apply for them during your 1L year (for instance, law students at Ohio State can apply for dual degrees while enrolled in a JD program). However, it would probably be best to wait until next cycle with a fresh approach that considered joint degrees, which might beneficial for your partner too. If your boyfriend starts studying now for the June/September LSAT, there is no reason he can't improve his score with months of studying and tutorship from a 170+ girlfriend. 25 years old is definitely not too old for law school, so an extra year shouldn't matter that much if he's already set on future career, location, and life partner.
I'm saying all of this because I was interested in a PhD, but was eventually turned off by trends in academia (both job availability and otherwise). Your initial interest in grad school and your choice to attend a liberal arts college suggests to me that you want an intellectually stimulating career, or a "career that matters". Don't fall into the trap of getting a stressful, menial biglaw job just to subsidize your boyfriend's tier 2 JD (I'm assuming you don't go to UNLV in that scenario). This might be scary, but you're transitioning to the point in your life where doors stop opening and then start to close. A dual-degree, even if you don't use it, might give you more peace of mind and a feasible backup plan. Just another possibility I hadn't seen in this thread.