Psht, I get this on all sides, too, because I'm bisexual with a long-term (almost 6 years?) same-sex partner. Straight people think I'm gay (too gay for them), and gay folks think I can't be trusted, like I'm infiltrating queer spaces. Like, nah bro, I just like really hot people.brinicolec wrote:Yeah, that's complete bullshit. There's a lot of "white-passing" minorities. Ironically enough, I was just looking at an article talking about the fact that Paris Jackson (who is pretty "white-passing" if you haven't seen her) said she identifies as a black woman and people on Twitter were flipping out like she's not blackS.Picquery wrote:^This. I am on the flip side of the URM coin, where I *look* very pale (even though my features give a hint to the fact that I was raised in a Latinx household with a Latinx family). I spent tons of time with my family in Argentina, my family all looks (and is) Latinx. Except for me. Because of my "look" I was told I shouldn't apply as URM for UG, and I thought I was gonna flip a shit. Anyway... that was an unnecessary little rant, but there you go.texcellence wrote:Agreed. I've seen many people on TLS ask if they get boosts if, for example, they find out their parent or grandparent they have no relationship with is Mexican/Native/Black, and the answer is "technically...yes" but I'd also add "but if you don't actually culturally self-identify then I think you are an a-hole."brinicolec wrote:I don't think the self-identify thing is so much relevant to race as it is other things. Because yes, there are Tacehl Dolezal's (& also white ppl who have a far removed minority relative somewhere & are suddenly black or Native American or whatever they wanna claim with hopes of using it to their benefit for admissions).mm2368 wrote:dc_diva wrote:Agreed with all that dc_diva said. It's also important to remember that many of these schools especially in the T14 care about how you self-identify and are sensitive to such things, especially because they're educating students in the year 2017. That isn't to say you can pull a Rachel Dolezal and call yourself something you aren't.RParadela wrote:
Not to mention everyone on here thinks that he or she is an expert. and then when someone turns around and gets into a T7 with a 156 and isn't a "URM" per the LSAC definition NOR a Rhodes/Fulbright NOR the person who cured malaria on two separate continents, they scramble for ways to make sense of the acceptance. It's the same thing when people with incredible numbers get rejected. The assumption is "YP" - but uh, what if the readers just didn't like your application? Yeah, I guess the latter is more difficult to swallow.
Point is, this isn't purely the numbers game it is made out to be. I've learned that first-hand this cycle.It annoys me that a lot of THOSE types of conversations are ones you have with other minorities. Like, how do minorities think it's okay to tell other minorities they're not [insert race] ENOUGH because they don't exhibit all of the common physical features or whatever?
Basically, whether is POC or lesbian/gay folks, I'm just not enough of anything to count. Oh well, I'mma keep doing me with my badass grades/future/life choices/partner.