Financially it looks like this:
Berkeley- waiting on a matching grant, but assuming I don't get it debt would be- 169.5k after interest and expenses
Duke- got a scholarship, debt would be roughly 100k ...
Michigan- slightly higher scholarship than duke, debt roughly 90k ...
UCLA- got a larger scholarship, debt would be roughly $43k
The deadline for accepting offers is coming at the end of next week for duke and shortly thereafter for most of the others. Given that I can't go visit any of these schools it's hard to say the best fit but I suspect I'd feel most at home at Michigan. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
