Poll options are with most up-to-date total COA estimates (net any scholarship I've been awarded at the school) multiplied by three. It also doesn't factor in my wife's wages that we will use for living expenses since she doesn't have a job yet. If you vote for the #2 choice, please vote for the contingency choice between W&M and BYU as well.

I'm married and my wife will be working full-time to offset expenses, most likely for COL and maybe save a bit extra to pay down loans a little early. She currently works on campus here, and we've found several positions at BU that are very similar to what she does now. The kicker here is that if she gets one of these full-time gigs I can get 50% tuition waiver as a spousal benefit after 12 months which would significantly reduce the added expense at BU. Downside is that without that, my debt-aversion pretty much makes BU unfeasible especially when compared to these other two options.
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Info on the schools and why they're in the running:
BU
Pros:
- The "highest ranked" school I got into
- Visited and loved it (my wife has loved Boston for a long time)
- Reputable school for banking, financial, and corporate law which is what interests me the most currently. They also have an accelerated LL.M. in that area which I could conceivably finish in time for a 9 month deferred offer of employment upon graduation (one extra semester after J.D.)
- Love the history of Boston and the idea of living in a bigger city for a while
Cons:
- COL in Boston is ridiculous
- Most expensive school by far with the least amount of aid (percentage of tuition) that I've received thus far at $15,000 k/year
- Harsh winters, hopefully somewhat negated by being in the tower all day
W&M
Pros:
- Visited GMU last month and, though we hated that school, we loved Virginia and D.C. (found out I got into W&M after trip was booked, so we couldn't visit there)
- Graduate Fellowship (out-of-state tuition waiver @ $9,000) + $4,000 stipend + $15,000 merit aid (after negotiations) while maintaining a "B" average
- Cheaper tuition than BU at $33,800
- Like the appeal of the history surrounding Williamsburg and the proximity to D.C.
- Cheaper COL than Boston
Cons:
- Somewhat isolated in Williamsburg
- More difficult job market for my wife and possible longer commute
BYU
Pros:
- Ridiculously cheap tuition ($10,600 for 2011–2012) due to Church membership
- $5,000 scholarship which is about half tuition
- Close to family; planning on pregnancy or kid somewhat close to the last year of law school so it would be nice to have parents around
- Less worry about tuition inflation eating up my scholarship awards like at other schools
- Good alumni network could help us with the job search
Cons:
- Provo, Utah
- BYU is more "competitive" in the sense that because there is less drinking and partying and many students have families they tend to study more
- Top 33% stipulation on scholarship
- Less "adventurous" since we've been in Utah basically our whole lives
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Thanks in advance for any wisdom or advice you have to offer!