Clearly wrote:lillawyer2 wrote:Attax wrote:lillawyer2 wrote:
Have you failed to consider that the other jobs that also make as much money would not be more fulfilling, because a) those individuals don't pose a strong interest in those fields and b) the discussion is about law school.
It's like someone saying how do I go about making and continuously having a satisfying breakfast? and someone responds eat lunch.
You have a respectable job, but yet you make it seem that no one else will have that, most people will be unhappy or your respectable job is still shit without providing a basis for this understanding. I mean it's like saying don't eat cheeseburgers, but you sit in my face and eat one and won't tell me why I shouldn't be eating one.
Having an interest in a field doesn't necessarily make it fulfilling. Searching for complete satisfaction in your life via your employment will leave you always lacking. But at least outside of law, you have time to do things other than merely work. You may have a "strong interest," I know I did when I entered law school, but I'm way more fulfilled in my career after dropping out because it put me in a position where I have both the time and financial resources to pursue what really does make my life fulfilling.
I think there are plenty of people telling you why you shouldn't be eating those cheeseburgers: huge amounts of debt, horrible work life balance, little to no control over your own life. If that sounds fulfilling, then go ahead. If not, drop out of the law school rat race while you're ahead.
I don't know any job where if you recieve 100k+ your work life balance doesn't suck. At my finance firm, people only make 80k and are working forever. Their work life balance is shit. Public ACCOUNTING FIRMS WILL pay you 70k and steal your soul. No company will pay you a certain amount and not have you work for that amount. In America, our work life balance is that we live to work and not work to live. It's a horrible condition to have created, but it's how it works. The more money one makes in America, the more they are responsible for and the more time they are required to be devoted to work.
So yes, lawyers may have to drudge through lots of work and the work may be boring, but shit most careers are and the careers that give a lot of money require you to work your ass off.
If I wanted to make an OK salary and have a great work life balance, I would have became a teacher and be content with my 70k at 45 years old. I know I'll never break 100k until I get tenure and been at the same school for 15+ years.
When someone wants a career in law, medicine, accounting, technology and etc..they knwo their work balance life will suck. So really it doesn't add anything to the conversation. Lol no one Denies work life balance is poor and it isn't really a huge deterring factor.
The problem is the price of entry is so high that it's not worth it. You take 300k in loans to make 100k after taxes to live on 50k a year and put 50k a year into student loans for 8 years just to break even, meanwhile it's rare people even survive that long in big law...
Clearly who is doing this? I mean let's think about it clearly. No one takes 300k out of debt, unless (key word here) bobby's little squirrel upstairs had a stroke while turning the wheel at the unfortunate time when poor bobby was filling out financial aid. I mean seriously. If we think about it, those who take out 300k have to know that they will be slaving away for years to pay it off. No one takes out that much money and isnt a slave to their job. Doctors with their guaranteed high salary after they pass all their rigorous testing and schooling pay out and gruel for a long time. The good thing about law school is that YOU DO NOT HAVE TO SUFFER we choose to suffer. So it isn't the profession that is the problem, it is the people that go into it. Bobby chose to take out 300k in loans, when he could have retook for a better score or went to a regional school that gave him more money.
The price of entry is high for all graduate schooling. In this era, nothing is for free. Everything cost top dollar. You want a prestigious profession? You have to pay the prestigious price for it or work hard to be determined worthy of paying less. No one is going to hand you something without busting your balls first. There are
ways to beat the system, whose fault is it if bobby doesn't beat it and take home the gold? It's bobbys and no one else's. The law schools aren't lying to you. All the chips are on the table. It's up to you. Anyone with eyes and basic research skills can weigh their pros and cons before taking that jump. I sure as hell did. I used this site, and others to gauge if I was making the right decision....I molded the advice to fit my situation.
So if bobby thought it was worth it takiing out 300k for his 100k job then he has to live with it and it isn't the law schools fault. It isn't the professions fault. It's only bobbys fault and hopefully bobby will take it in stride and has a good plan to make the best of his situation.
There are many people who go to law school with loans under 100k. Your scenario seems kind of extreme and if most people on this board follow the tls advice then they should be doing pretty well for themselves. The legal profession isn't going anywhere. The prestige of having a law degree from a t14 has not gone away. The money hasn't gone away. Lawyers with sense will always make money. Everyone needs a lawyer. Have some hustle about you. The legal career as a lawyer is an insurance policy career which means that if you lose your job and have some sense and hustle you can go out and make money on your own without an employer. I STAND BY THIS 100%. Someone with a profession not just a career but a profession and can't make decent money And thrive (not every lawyer will make 100k+, but thrive enough to have a good home life and able to be financially stable) needs to not to be quick and reevaluate the profession and place blame there but themselves and the better choices they could have made. People always quick to blame someone else or another entity for problems that could have been avoided if they made wiser choices.
As I wrote before, unless your rich or have well established connects, you have to bust your balls to be successful. In every career no one is going to pay you well for easy street. If you do coding you have to work equally as hard to be successful as you do for being a lawyer. Maybe there are more jobs, but there are also a lot of people in technology, people who have been doing it since they were 5. People with an iq that puts yours to shame, people with impressive reusmes...etc You have to learn different skills, go back to school, use a different part of your brain and hustle in a different community, but your still busting your balls. It would be the same if I dropped everything and tried accounting, which is boring as hell, and you bust your balls for 80k and still have to get licensing and past tests to get more money, so like law school you have to work very hard to reach a certain status.
Let's try to agree on one thing, when choosing a law school think about how well you are able to work smart and hard. There needs to be a balance, so while your young and your eagar to get your career started, pump your breaks and make sure that the law school you chose will provide the best and easiest way to work smart (ie. Career choices, particular location you want, firms you want and slaty your comfortable with and a ls debt you can manage) and hard (strategic and efficient method toward working to pay loans, career advancement, budget managing) I feel early in anyone's careeer work life balance is hard to achieve perfectly or even decently early on in life but if you work smart and hard you will essentially minimize the imbalance in your work life balance and hopefully it will be a quicker transition to a better balance.
Sorry for the grammar errors I'm on my phone and trying to type this quickly.