One night stand motivating me to not go to a NYC school...

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One night stand motivating me to not go to a NYC school...

Postby Gunz353 » Thu Feb 25, 2010 11:51 pm

I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...

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Postby chicoalto0649 » Thu Feb 25, 2010 11:52 pm

So in btl

And I've lived in NYC, it aint that great and it aint that glamorous.

Midwest for the quality of life win

Details are a little bogus in this story.


OP: How did you meet the person in question.
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Postby icydash » Thu Feb 25, 2010 11:55 pm

what law school did she go to?

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Postby thedogship » Thu Feb 25, 2010 11:55 pm

Yawn.

You met one loser/bad-hookup so being a lawyer in new york is terrible and it's better other places. ok, that makes sense.

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Postby Gunz353 » Thu Feb 25, 2010 11:56 pm

Michigan

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Postby Ragged » Thu Feb 25, 2010 11:57 pm

I think their advice was solid though.

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Postby chicoalto0649 » Thu Feb 25, 2010 11:57 pm

Gunz353 wrote:Michigan



There's you're problem right there..... HYS-CCN for hookups in big cities dawg

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Postby ccs224 » Thu Feb 25, 2010 11:58 pm

Gunz353 wrote:I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...


Were their two of them? If not, just say he.

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Postby so_confused » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:00 am

ccs224 wrote:
Gunz353 wrote:I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...


Were their two of them? If not, just say he.


hahaha

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Postby Abrikos » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:01 am

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Postby T14_Scholly » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:02 am

cool
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Postby ccs224 » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:03 am

so_confused wrote:
ccs224 wrote:
Gunz353 wrote:I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...


Were their two of them? If not, just say he.


hahaha


Hahaha but true. Us gays are the only ones who would ever try to use ambiguous (and grammatically incorrect) pronouns so consistently. It's a dead giveaway.

Don't be shady, Gunz.
Also, yes I know that it should be there not their above.

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Postby rockchalk86 » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:03 am

Smart girl = bad lay

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Postby Me-a Culpa » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:06 am

Gunz353 wrote:I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...

and there we have it.... I'd really enjoy reading a psychoanalytical professional opinion of this and the motivation behind it. projecting insecurities? Narcissistic personality disorder?

It might be a "flame", but that is unimportant. It's the "why"? Why write this? What is the motivation, what is the gain?

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Postby fortissimo » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:08 am

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Postby erniesto » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:08 am

Why would you hook up with a lawyer? They're the most boring people alive. Not to mention you don't ever shit in the pantry. And this wasn't even a cougar IE: partner, senior associate. EPIC FAIL.

You should have bolted as soon as you learned they were an associate. That was such a TTT decision.
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Postby cicely101 » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:09 am

Me-a Culpa wrote:
Gunz353 wrote:I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...

and there we have it.... I'd really enjoy reading a psychoanalytical professional opinion of this and the motivation behind it. projecting insecurities? Narcissistic personality disorder?

It might be a "flame", but that is unimportant. It's the "why"? Why write this? What is the motivation, what is the gain?



Agreed....you didn't even mention the schools that you are considering leaving NYC for. If you don't provide that info... honey we can't help you.

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Postby fortissimo » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:10 am

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Postby so_confused » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:10 am

rockchalk86 wrote:Smart girl = bad lay


I disagree.

I think the case here is:

Smart man = horrendous lay

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Postby so_confused » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:11 am

ccs224 wrote:
so_confused wrote:
ccs224 wrote:
Gunz353 wrote:I am a born and raised New Yorker that has been struggling with leaving the area when it comes to law school, so this experience helped my decision a bit. So, this is a really off color tale, but the experience made me second guess my plans. I had a one night stand with a second year associate who works at Hughes & Hubbard in NYC. (I picked up all their info in the cab ride to their place by the way) We get to their place in Chelsea, and it was a real dump of a one bedroom. I was expecting a little more, even despite the out of control rent in Chelsea. The "date" in question seemed so depressed and hateful of their life. When I brought up the fact that I was going to law school, and asked about their job, they were not inclined to discuss at all and simply told me that I better go to the best ranked school I could get into and then threw me down on the bed. To end this story, the sex was horrendous and when I tried to leave they begged me to stay the night. I bolted. If this is what associate life in NYC is potentially like, I think I'll be okay with life outside NYC. Eeeek! Let the judgment and scathing remarks commence...


Were their two of them? If not, just say he.


hahaha


Hahaha but true. Us gays are the only ones who would ever try to use ambiguous (and grammatically incorrect) pronouns so consistently. It's a dead giveaway.

Don't be shady, Gunz.
Also, yes I know that it should be there not their above.


I'm sorry for the redundancy: but "hahahaha"

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Postby Me-a Culpa » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:20 am

fortissimo wrote:Virgin who wants to get laid and pretends to have (sexual) power?

I was thinking this.... among many others. Claiming the sex was horrendous piqued my curiosity.

I have a mental picture of this geeky kid that's sex life is highlighted by masturbation.... and this makes him feel better. I could be wrong, but I doubt it.

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Postby Gunz353 » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:21 am

Haha this certainly grabbed up alot of fun comments...alright, IM GAY! I SAID IT! hahaha

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Postby chicoalto0649 » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:25 am

Gunz353 wrote:Haha this certainly grabbed up alot of fun comments...alright, IM GAY! I SAID IT! hahaha



Would be a way better story if it was some girl/girl action....

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Postby ccs224 » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:26 am

chicoalto0649 wrote:
Gunz353 wrote:Haha this certainly grabbed up alot of fun comments...alright, IM GAY! I SAID IT! hahaha



Would be a way better story if it was some girl/girl action....


Except that it would end up with them moving in together, forgoing sex, and raising an adopted chinese child in Park Slope.

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Re: One night stand motivating me to not go to a NYC school...

Postby cicely101 » Fri Feb 26, 2010 12:27 am

ccs224 wrote:
chicoalto0649 wrote:
Gunz353 wrote:Haha this certainly grabbed up alot of fun comments...alright, IM GAY! I SAID IT! hahaha



Would be a way better story if it was some girl/girl action....


Except that it would end up with them moving in together, forgoing sex, and raising an adopted chinese child in Park Slope.



LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




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