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- worldtraveler
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I feel like voting for him to stay just to keep him out of the dating pool. Since he might be in Northern CA I might encounter him at some point and that scares me.
I also fail to see how wanting to move with him for law school makes her "needy". I think most people in a serious long-term relationship would contemplate moving with their significant other.
I also fail to see how wanting to move with him for law school makes her "needy". I think most people in a serious long-term relationship would contemplate moving with their significant other.
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This is a joke, right? I'm a bit concerned that so many posters took the OP seriously...
- aaaaaah
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Is the OP the Brazilian birthday guy? He has to be, right?
- coldshoulder
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She's nuts. You're probably also a little nuts. End it, start over somewhere else in the country, without her.tobeornottobe wrote:She told me she would never have lost her virginity to me had she known I would break up with her.
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- quixotical
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I thought the same thing-- maybe OP is a flexityflex alt? Anyone seen flex around lately? Although OP didn't mention collecting cologne, so it might just be another douchey guy who thinks he's, like, super totally hot!!1!aaaaaah wrote:Is the OP the Brazilian birthday guy? He has to be, right?
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dunno if I said this already or not but I like your avatarquixotical wrote:I thought the same thing-- maybe OP is a flexityflex alt? Anyone seen flex around lately? Although OP didn't mention collecting cologne, so it might just be another douchey guy who thinks he's, like, super totally hot!!1!aaaaaah wrote:Is the OP the Brazilian birthday guy? He has to be, right?
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Thanks foxy!FantasticMrFox wrote:dunno if I said this already or not but I like your avatarquixotical wrote:I thought the same thing-- maybe OP is a flexityflex alt? Anyone seen flex around lately? Although OP didn't mention collecting cologne, so it might just be another douchey guy who thinks he's, like, super totally hot!!1!aaaaaah wrote:Is the OP the Brazilian birthday guy? He has to be, right?
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- northwood
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TLDR. if you are not happy now- why do you think you can changer her or the relationship. end it before people get overly attached and committed to the relationship ( or settle) and find someone new. its easier to end things now, than have to deal with that drama later ( when all you are doing is just going to make it worse by stringing it along).
- bllardw
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+1hooma wrote:This would not make for an interesting story.tobeornottobe wrote:I should write a book about my life. It would make for an interesting story.
- dturnbull87
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Doesn't look good with makeup and you're still with her? Mate, find a woman that looks good with and without it. You may go broke from caving in all the time and buying her jewelry and she may not be able to afford the stuff that "makes her pretty".
But if you're only looking at her in the dark, then...go ahead and ignore TLS
But if you're only looking at her in the dark, then...go ahead and ignore TLS
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decided to not be a douche and make it work.
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- DonDrapersAttorney
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El_Gallo wrote:I love that this is your first post on TLS
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If you were in a good relationship, it would not be "work"tobeornottobe wrote:decided to not be a douche and make it work.
- Blessedassurance
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Summarized for clarity.tobeornottobe wrote: Dated a fat, needy chick and I'm thinking of dumping her because I want to explore my options and think I could do better now that I'm going to LS
What the hell should I do? Stay or break up before law school?
- stratocophic
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Lololol how did I miss this thread? Drug in all of BP, had people raging, either 0 self-awareness or excellent flame... magnifico.
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- sunynp
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You are already a douche and have no hope of ever being anything but a douche.tobeornottobe wrote:decided to not be a douche and make it work.
- piccolittle
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This is your douchiest move yet. Good luck with that.tobeornottobe wrote:decided to not be a douche and make it work.
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This has to be the dumbest thread ever... Is the OP serious? I particularly loved the makeup reason... I'm going to ask my boyfriend how he feels about me without makeup.
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- bport hopeful
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Only read the OP, so sorry if anyone already said this, and Im sure they have because its the obvious answer, but you should dump her because of points 2-4.
If shes busted and annoying let her go dude.
If shes busted and annoying let her go dude.
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OP: I will not address how YOU feel. I think enough people have done that, in spades. Whether shallow, immature, or whatever, they are your feelings that only you can resolve. Best I can do is give you a similar scenario and its consequences just as a cautionary tale.
I have been with my beloved for 18 years now. The hardest time in our relationship was when I was in vet school - I left and went across half our state while he stayed in our hometown getting his UG. On ICU rotations, I worked from 5 am to 10 pm or 12 pm to 3 am alternating shifts. When I got home, I didn't even want to talk on the phone to him. I just wanted to sit and NOT think for a while. This made him feel unloved and neglected, and if he wasn't more mature it would have ended our relationship. I assume the hours will be similar, if not worse, in LS. At least you won't have to sleep in a barn on a bale of hay . . .
Back to my point which is that it sounds like she is even more needy than my husband was at that time. IMHO, I don't think your relationship can survive the stress LS will cause to HER.
I'm not trashing what you have said about her because the internet is like riding in a car or being inebriated . . . people will say things they normally wouldn't dare, since they are cloaked with anonymity or EtOH. I think the internet causes severe diarrhea of the mouth that wouldn't normally happen. Consider what you have read carefully, and if you truly FEEL what you are saying, you know what to do.
I have been with my beloved for 18 years now. The hardest time in our relationship was when I was in vet school - I left and went across half our state while he stayed in our hometown getting his UG. On ICU rotations, I worked from 5 am to 10 pm or 12 pm to 3 am alternating shifts. When I got home, I didn't even want to talk on the phone to him. I just wanted to sit and NOT think for a while. This made him feel unloved and neglected, and if he wasn't more mature it would have ended our relationship. I assume the hours will be similar, if not worse, in LS. At least you won't have to sleep in a barn on a bale of hay . . .
Back to my point which is that it sounds like she is even more needy than my husband was at that time. IMHO, I don't think your relationship can survive the stress LS will cause to HER.
I'm not trashing what you have said about her because the internet is like riding in a car or being inebriated . . . people will say things they normally wouldn't dare, since they are cloaked with anonymity or EtOH. I think the internet causes severe diarrhea of the mouth that wouldn't normally happen. Consider what you have read carefully, and if you truly FEEL what you are saying, you know what to do.
- BrianGriffintheDog
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The moment she starts to stop caring herself (in other words, respect herself) is when the spark is gone.tobeornottobe wrote:The difference between her with make-up and without make-up is like night and day. She has gained weight and does not seem to want to lose it.
- bport hopeful
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How is this the advice you give after that story. Also, it is illegal to work in health care for more than 16 hours.feadogger wrote:OP: I will not address how YOU feel. I think enough people have done that, in spades. Whether shallow, immature, or whatever, they are your feelings that only you can resolve. Best I can do is give you a similar scenario and its consequences just as a cautionary tale.
I have been with my beloved for 18 years now. The hardest time in our relationship was when I was in vet school - I left and went across half our state while he stayed in our hometown getting his UG. On ICU rotations, I worked from 5 am to 10 pm or 12 pm to 3 am alternating shifts. When I got home, I didn't even want to talk on the phone to him. I just wanted to sit and NOT think for a while. This made him feel unloved and neglected, and if he wasn't more mature it would have ended our relationship. I assume the hours will be similar, if not worse, in LS. At least you won't have to sleep in a barn on a bale of hay . . .
Back to my point which is that it sounds like she is even more needy than my husband was at that time. IMHO, I don't think your relationship can survive the stress LS will cause to HER.
I'm not trashing what you have said about her because the internet is like riding in a car or being inebriated . . . people will say things they normally wouldn't dare, since they are cloaked with anonymity or EtOH. I think the internet causes severe diarrhea of the mouth that wouldn't normally happen. Consider what you have read carefully, and if you truly FEEL what you are saying, you know what to do.
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