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Anybody getting cold feet!???
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 3:26 am
by dhatfie1
So, since the impending realization of all our law school dreams is about a month away, is anybody feeling last minute jitters and/or thinking that perhaps you may not be cut out for law school altogether?
Re: Anybody getting cold feet!???
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 3:26 am
by itsirtou
Constantly.
Re: Anybody getting cold feet!???
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 3:30 am
by sconnielaw13
itsirtou wrote:Constantly.
I second that.
However, I personally think it is good to be nervous about it. For me it is a sign that I will work my ass off to ensure that I do well and ultimately prove my that worries were just that... worries.
Re: Anybody getting cold feet!???
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 3:36 am
by aPosseAdEsse
Yes, though I'm not as concerned with whether I'm cut out for it. I'm fairly confident I will do o.k. My two main concerns are: 1. whether or not I'll be able to maintain my relationship with my significant other 2. whether or not I'll be able to enjoy my family as a lawyer
On the one hand, I could bail out now and take a fed job that would start at ~40k/yr but work 9 to 5 and enjoy great benefits and work/life balance + long-term stability. On the other hand, I expect being a lawyer to both be more intellectually stimulating & lucrative.
I've made my decision, just scared of the X factor that is what type of job I'll end up with and how well I can raise a family while doing it.
TL;DR: More scared of lawyering than law schooling for family reasons
Re: Anybody getting cold feet!???
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 3:49 am
by calicocat
aPosseAdEsse wrote:Yes, though I'm not as concerned with whether I'm cut out for it. I'm fairly confident I will do o.k. My two main concerns are: 1. whether or not I'll be able to maintain my relationship with my significant other 2. whether or not I'll be able to enjoy my family as a lawyer
Thank you for your contribution to the curve.
Re: Anybody getting cold feet!???
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 4:17 am
by aPosseAdEsse
calicocat wrote:aPosseAdEsse wrote:Yes, though I'm not as concerned with whether I'm cut out for it. I'm fairly confident I will do o.k. My two main concerns are: 1. whether or not I'll be able to maintain my relationship with my significant other 2. whether or not I'll be able to enjoy my family as a lawyer
Thank you for your contribution to the curve.
If you took that to mean either I am not going to take law school seriously or that I'm not ambitious, you misunderstood. As difficult as law school will be, as time-consuming as it will be, it will only last 3 years. Lawyering will last 30+ (40+?), and law school is a fairly strong committment to lawyering. Thus my jitters are with respect to that longer term committment.
Re: Anybody getting cold feet!???
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 5:18 am
by itsfine
Im not worried that I wont do ok. I know Ill do relatively well..Im just worried that I wont do as well as I want..and therefore not get the job I want..
Re: Anybody getting cold feet!???
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 5:29 am
by gerghk
Me too - prior to this I was an electrical engineer making 90k/year with full benefits and I just finished my Masters at Stanford...
Blah but I honestly can't keep doing technical work for the rest of my life
Re: Anybody getting cold feet!???
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 10:05 am
by ToadGoDead
sure, if someone wasnt at least a little nervous id say they were full of shit or naive
Re: Anybody getting cold feet!???
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 11:12 am
by TTH
A bit nervous, mainly that I'm making a mistake by not doing 0L prep and worried that I'm not going to be mentally conditioned for the workload come this fall. But I left the workforce two years ago to work my way to law school, so all in all, I'm pretty fired up.
Re: Anybody getting cold feet!???
Posted: Wed Jul 14, 2010 5:53 pm
by rdcws000
I'm pretty excited. I have had a bout or two of cold feet throughout the last month or so. Last month I heard about a pretty juicy job offer that could be possible for me, but I would have to express my interest in it. I went through about a week of cold feet, considering making a break for it and going for the easy money.
In the end I didn't even inquire about the job. This is what I want to do, it's still a little scary though.