Wise sayings of a 3L on balance and law school grades
Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2013 1:26 pm
Hi TLS,
I wanted to briefly contribute something to future and current law students before I graduate law school and enter the workforce.
I remain in the top 10% of the law school class and will most likely graduate in the top 10%. After 2.5 years of law school, I learned something I did not know coming into my first year. The lesson I learned is that the more time I took off during the semester to focus on myself, the better I did that semester. Allow me to explain by going through the structure of my semesters and subsequent results.
First Year of Law School
I focused exclusively on grades. I went out maybe 5 times during my first semester. I went out maybe 6 or 7 times during my second semester. In addition to studying every weekday and weeknight, I averaged 7 hours on Saturday and 7 hours on Sunday every single weekend. I did not come home for Thanksgiving, Spring break, or any other holiday. I worked.
Result: I finished exactly in the top 10%.
Consequences: My social relationships dwindled, I became unhealthy because I did not take time to work out. I was lonely and overworked. Furthermore, I was sick of law school and its mental toll on me.
Second Year of Law School
I decided to change things up since I secured a summer associate position. I literally missed the first three weeks of class my fall semester because of call backs. By this point, I had a girlfriend I met over the summer. I flew to visit her every weekend up until 2 weeks before exams began. I did no work over weekends.
Furthermore, I took almost every evening off to work out and hang out.
Results: I got all A's and A-'s.
Consequences: My happiness level shot up tenfold. I was living the life every weekend, exploring a different city with my girlfriend, hanging out with friends on weekdays, and getting in shape. I was very surprised by this phenomenon. People that worked harder than I did received very bad grades.
Third Year of Law School
I just received all of my fall semester grades. Best semester to date with difficult courses. I took more time off fall 2012 semester than I did in any other semester. Traveled every weekend, payed for a lot of full body massages, spent an enormous amount of time with friends and family, focused a tremendous amount of time on myself and my happiness.
What I've Learned
I don't mean to say that I did not work hard. I worked very hard. But by taking time off, my happiness level shot up tenfold. Taking time off forced me to focus only on what was necessary to get good grades; the bare essentials. Everything else was unnecessary noise. I got more out of one hour of study time than I did out of four hours of study time my first year of law school. Because I took time off, I was more engaged and captivated by the material. I was motivated and happy to be in law school. I worked hard, but I played harder.
Law school is very demanding and will suck the life out of you if you allow it to. I refused to be a victim of the law school system after my first year and performed better than if I just studied all the time. You not only deserve to take time off for yourself, but you need it. Your mental health requires it. My grades were not affected by the amount of time I took off. In fact, the more time I took off, the better my grades turned out. Don't feel guilty by taking time off, you're investing in your mental health and your ability to absorb more information when you come back refreshed.
Lastly, I'm not naturally smart. I got a 147 on the LSAT initially. I could only bring it up to 165 after a whole summer of studying. Further, if you heard me in class, you'd think I'm a below-median student. So this method can work for anyone as soon as you figure out how to take a law school exam.
I wanted to briefly contribute something to future and current law students before I graduate law school and enter the workforce.
I remain in the top 10% of the law school class and will most likely graduate in the top 10%. After 2.5 years of law school, I learned something I did not know coming into my first year. The lesson I learned is that the more time I took off during the semester to focus on myself, the better I did that semester. Allow me to explain by going through the structure of my semesters and subsequent results.
First Year of Law School
I focused exclusively on grades. I went out maybe 5 times during my first semester. I went out maybe 6 or 7 times during my second semester. In addition to studying every weekday and weeknight, I averaged 7 hours on Saturday and 7 hours on Sunday every single weekend. I did not come home for Thanksgiving, Spring break, or any other holiday. I worked.
Result: I finished exactly in the top 10%.
Consequences: My social relationships dwindled, I became unhealthy because I did not take time to work out. I was lonely and overworked. Furthermore, I was sick of law school and its mental toll on me.
Second Year of Law School
I decided to change things up since I secured a summer associate position. I literally missed the first three weeks of class my fall semester because of call backs. By this point, I had a girlfriend I met over the summer. I flew to visit her every weekend up until 2 weeks before exams began. I did no work over weekends.
Furthermore, I took almost every evening off to work out and hang out.
Results: I got all A's and A-'s.
Consequences: My happiness level shot up tenfold. I was living the life every weekend, exploring a different city with my girlfriend, hanging out with friends on weekdays, and getting in shape. I was very surprised by this phenomenon. People that worked harder than I did received very bad grades.
Third Year of Law School
I just received all of my fall semester grades. Best semester to date with difficult courses. I took more time off fall 2012 semester than I did in any other semester. Traveled every weekend, payed for a lot of full body massages, spent an enormous amount of time with friends and family, focused a tremendous amount of time on myself and my happiness.
What I've Learned
I don't mean to say that I did not work hard. I worked very hard. But by taking time off, my happiness level shot up tenfold. Taking time off forced me to focus only on what was necessary to get good grades; the bare essentials. Everything else was unnecessary noise. I got more out of one hour of study time than I did out of four hours of study time my first year of law school. Because I took time off, I was more engaged and captivated by the material. I was motivated and happy to be in law school. I worked hard, but I played harder.
Law school is very demanding and will suck the life out of you if you allow it to. I refused to be a victim of the law school system after my first year and performed better than if I just studied all the time. You not only deserve to take time off for yourself, but you need it. Your mental health requires it. My grades were not affected by the amount of time I took off. In fact, the more time I took off, the better my grades turned out. Don't feel guilty by taking time off, you're investing in your mental health and your ability to absorb more information when you come back refreshed.
Lastly, I'm not naturally smart. I got a 147 on the LSAT initially. I could only bring it up to 165 after a whole summer of studying. Further, if you heard me in class, you'd think I'm a below-median student. So this method can work for anyone as soon as you figure out how to take a law school exam.