Forced Relocation/Family Issues
Posted: Thu Aug 09, 2012 12:02 pm
I hope I'm posting this in the right forum. Essentially, after graduation next spring I have to move out of my school's home market for family reasons. My mother is very sick, and needs someone whom she knows well to care for her (alzheimers). I also have to close down the family business and work with our attorney to settle the estate. I'll be moving back to my hometown, but I won't have time to work at least for a year after graduation. The good news is that my family prepared very well for end of life problems, and have saved more than enough money to care well for my mother until she passes and still provide for me to a point.
How do I survive this career wise? I'm still dealing with it emotionally, but we saw this coming a long time ago so at the risk of sounding coldhearted I'm not totally overwhelmed. I'm moving into one of the tougher to crack legal markets. Biglaw was never in the picture, as my grades are only average and my school is a lower T1. I really want to work in what most people call shitlaw anyway, criminal/family/bankruptcy law, so I guess that's a plus. I assume I just need to hit the pavement and build a network of attorneys who can serve as mentors and potentially refer me, but is there anything more I can do?
Since I have no debt, I'm only 23, and have some money to float me I think time is on my side. But I don't want to blow my parent's hard earned money just to bum around with no job. Taking care of my mom will be a major part of my life for the next few years, but outside of that I'd like to at least work in the industry in some capacity.
Any thoughts? Pointers? People who've dealt with this themselves? Thanks.
How do I survive this career wise? I'm still dealing with it emotionally, but we saw this coming a long time ago so at the risk of sounding coldhearted I'm not totally overwhelmed. I'm moving into one of the tougher to crack legal markets. Biglaw was never in the picture, as my grades are only average and my school is a lower T1. I really want to work in what most people call shitlaw anyway, criminal/family/bankruptcy law, so I guess that's a plus. I assume I just need to hit the pavement and build a network of attorneys who can serve as mentors and potentially refer me, but is there anything more I can do?
Since I have no debt, I'm only 23, and have some money to float me I think time is on my side. But I don't want to blow my parent's hard earned money just to bum around with no job. Taking care of my mom will be a major part of my life for the next few years, but outside of that I'd like to at least work in the industry in some capacity.
Any thoughts? Pointers? People who've dealt with this themselves? Thanks.