Bad Semester Due to Personal Tragedy
Posted: Mon Aug 22, 2011 2:00 pm
Three weeks into my second semester of 1L, my childhood best friend killed himself. I was an only child and spent every day with him from ages 6-16 (same boy scout troop, little league team etc; I'm a guy and not named Kimmy), so I considered him a brother was devastated when I heard the news. I decided that I wouldn't take the rest of the semester off because it would effectively put my life on hold for 6-9 months, but I made the conscious decision to put myself and my friends ahead of school, so I ended up going out way more than I otherwise would have. I did all my reading, but my mind was usually in other places when I was doing it, and I maintained near-perfect attendance (except for the actual day I found out). Nevertheless, my grades suffered because of the decisions I made. I knew this was going to happen, but that doesn't change the fact that I have to deal with it now. I go to a state school that dominates its region, which is my home region and where I want to stay. So my tuition is about as low as it gets and job prospects for graduates are good (relative to the industry, of course). I worked a few years before law school, so I have a solid business background. My first semester I finished around median; I know I wasn't on my way to Wall St. or the Supreme Court, but I wasn't screwed. My second semester I finished in the bottom 10% of my class. Is this a common reaction to a tragedy, or am I just making excuses for myself? How do I pick up the pieces?