OP here - thanks all for the responses. But yes, I’d say looking for somewhere to start, and especially what drinks are appropriate in certain situations. Ideally I could find maybe a wine order and a cocktail that could be ordered everywhere depending on who I’m with (the 1-2 times I’ve tasted beer did not like at all)Anonymous User wrote: ↑Wed Aug 17, 2022 9:37 amIt's pretty clear that OP shouldn't feel any pressure to drink because there really isn't any these days. Peer pressure is more often perceived than actual, so I bet a lot of this is in OP's head and most of OP's colleagues don't think twice about what OP orders.
But regardless of whether the pressure is actual or perceived, OP may still want to get more into alcohol. It can sometimes be easier to go with the flow than to live with your own feelings about bucking the trend. I have a friend who never got the taste for coffee/alcohol in undergrad, but started drinking both socially (and responsibly) as a consultant and is now a big fan (he even takes trips out to Napa on his own dime). Maybe OP is in the same boat. I don't think it's cringe to give recommendations as long as OP knows they don't have to do any of this to succeed, and that if they do start partaking, they should do so responsibly.
It would be helpful to get more intel on what advice OP is looking for. Are you looking for entry level knowledge? Somewhere to start? If so, are you interested in learning about particular types of alcohol (wine, mixed drinks, etc.)? Do you want to know what drinks are culturally appropriate for particular situations (though those lines are pretty much obsolete now)? Are you looking for ideas for things you might genuinely like given your current tastes?
I just don’t want to show up to a bar and be like oh a gin and tonic or old fashioned and then be asked what type of liquor and have no idea what to say. I think a previous poster reccomneded Tito’s but I don’t really know what quality that is… and have been told ordering house or well line stuff looks cheap haha (not that Tito’s is?). Do like the wine idea, but didn’t even know you could order that at a real bar. Plus the huge variance in price/color/type is a bit of a scare.
All in all, I want to know just enough to blend in and make it seem like I’ve always drank casually (even if it requires reading a book lol). And for those saying there’s bigger problems if I haven’t gotten into this stuff beforehand I can promise you I do not come across the way you’re imagining - ppl are usually quite surprised I’m not big into drinking/going out