Stay in London or return stateside
Posted: Mon Nov 15, 2021 9:55 am
I'm a third year associate doing capital markets at a US firm. The work sucks: I don't enjoy it at all, it's rote, devoid of any intellectual satisfaction, etc. But somehow, my hours have been quite doable. I bill around 1800 a year, I work maybe 10% of my weekends a year and maybe 10 all nighters. My colleagues are generally quite nice. The pay is higher (I think post tax I have an additional $40k or so per year thanks to the COLA, as compared to doing the same job in the US).
Recently, my firm has indicated they are looking for someone to go to the NY office. My initial goal was to always return to the US (only went to London as I struck out at OCI) but in a lot of ways, London has become an unexpected gift (weekend trips to continental Europe, higher salary, less work, etc.).
However, my goal is still to settle down in the US, get a 9-5 job there for a company of for the government, buy a house in the suburbs, pop out some kids in three years from now, and maybe get a job in Europe or Asia around the time my kids should be going to middle school as I don't want to be paying through the nose for a good level of education (although I have to do more research on this anyway). So in a lot of ways, my life in London has and continues to be that of an expat, where I don't really lay down many roots. I think that is one of the main reasons I'd want to move sooner rather than later, so I can feel more "settled." Additionally, I used to have somewhat of a pipedream of switching practice areas (again, I hate my area of law and one can only do capital markets in London), which used to be a prime reason for me want to move back early, but I think as I'm a third year already, it's too late for me to jump into any firm and go like "hey, how about I do some regulatory stuff?!" but do let me know if I'm wrong on this.
Now, I am wondering if it is time to go back to the US already. I have some worries that being a third year already, I am becoming less marketable to US government and company employers by the day. On the other hand, and I have no clue how hard people work in the US (but I see figures floating around of like 2400 hours a year), but I think I am basically working less hours for more money in London, which I'm quite happy about. I think a part of me is saying it would be insane to give this up, only to work harder for less money and risk burning out sooner.
Just wanted to see what others think: should I go to New York already or stay put in London for another year?
Recently, my firm has indicated they are looking for someone to go to the NY office. My initial goal was to always return to the US (only went to London as I struck out at OCI) but in a lot of ways, London has become an unexpected gift (weekend trips to continental Europe, higher salary, less work, etc.).
However, my goal is still to settle down in the US, get a 9-5 job there for a company of for the government, buy a house in the suburbs, pop out some kids in three years from now, and maybe get a job in Europe or Asia around the time my kids should be going to middle school as I don't want to be paying through the nose for a good level of education (although I have to do more research on this anyway). So in a lot of ways, my life in London has and continues to be that of an expat, where I don't really lay down many roots. I think that is one of the main reasons I'd want to move sooner rather than later, so I can feel more "settled." Additionally, I used to have somewhat of a pipedream of switching practice areas (again, I hate my area of law and one can only do capital markets in London), which used to be a prime reason for me want to move back early, but I think as I'm a third year already, it's too late for me to jump into any firm and go like "hey, how about I do some regulatory stuff?!" but do let me know if I'm wrong on this.
Now, I am wondering if it is time to go back to the US already. I have some worries that being a third year already, I am becoming less marketable to US government and company employers by the day. On the other hand, and I have no clue how hard people work in the US (but I see figures floating around of like 2400 hours a year), but I think I am basically working less hours for more money in London, which I'm quite happy about. I think a part of me is saying it would be insane to give this up, only to work harder for less money and risk burning out sooner.
Just wanted to see what others think: should I go to New York already or stay put in London for another year?