Don't give up: in case anyone needs a success story..
Posted: Mon May 22, 2017 7:55 pm
I did not do well in law school, I was in the top 1/2 of my class. In fact, I fell into a deep depression after getting a C in my con law class my 1L year. I still don't know how the fuck that happened. I received the highest grades in legal writing and did well in my other courses, but that C knocked me out of OCI fast. Also, I did not go to a top 10 school. Fast forward to the end of 3L. Applying to jobs. I landed a compliance role. Non-legal but still using my legal analysis skills. I thought it was temporary until I could get a real lawyer job after passing the bar. It turns out, I it took me four tries to pass the bar exam. It was the fucking worst. It felt like I kept getting doors slammed and I did not want to live anymore. I went to therapy. I really relied on my support system. I kept trying to pass, and once I did... the interviews from firms, big and small came.. and all of the darkness suddenly became worth it.
Why? I made sure to do useful things at my compliance role in a niche area. I specifically asked to be put on assignments that would demonstrate an in-depth skillset. I gained actual work experience. I did the administrative shit that a monkey could do and I did it gratefully. I got promoted, got more substantive assignments, etc. Now, I have a leg up on newly minted attorneys. I can say I have "expertise" in an area even though I've only worked in it for 2 years. I have search firms contacting me and interviews are being scheduled.
Look - you may not get that high paying job at first, but humble yourself and do the work. The world does not end with a bad grade. YOU WILL BE OKAY. Things will work out. Expand your job search to consider jobs that aren't traditionally legal, do it for the skills you'll gain, and you'll find yourself much better.
I just really needed to share this, because I know how difficult it is to see hope when you're constantly told that doing X is the guarantee for success... that OCI is the only way. Also failing the bar exam is just so fucking terrible and the worst. I was convinced that practicing law was not in the cards for me, but you can't give up that easily, you owe it to yourself to give it your all...even if it takes 10 fucking tries. It doesn't matter. The only time that matters is the time you pass. I'm just here to testify that there ARE non-traditional ways to be successful and still make good $$ and STILL excel in the legal field later on EVEN IF it takes time.
Just don't lose hope and carve your own path if you have to. Look into places you would have never considered. BE HUMBLE AND LEARN SOMETHING.
Why? I made sure to do useful things at my compliance role in a niche area. I specifically asked to be put on assignments that would demonstrate an in-depth skillset. I gained actual work experience. I did the administrative shit that a monkey could do and I did it gratefully. I got promoted, got more substantive assignments, etc. Now, I have a leg up on newly minted attorneys. I can say I have "expertise" in an area even though I've only worked in it for 2 years. I have search firms contacting me and interviews are being scheduled.
Look - you may not get that high paying job at first, but humble yourself and do the work. The world does not end with a bad grade. YOU WILL BE OKAY. Things will work out. Expand your job search to consider jobs that aren't traditionally legal, do it for the skills you'll gain, and you'll find yourself much better.
I just really needed to share this, because I know how difficult it is to see hope when you're constantly told that doing X is the guarantee for success... that OCI is the only way. Also failing the bar exam is just so fucking terrible and the worst. I was convinced that practicing law was not in the cards for me, but you can't give up that easily, you owe it to yourself to give it your all...even if it takes 10 fucking tries. It doesn't matter. The only time that matters is the time you pass. I'm just here to testify that there ARE non-traditional ways to be successful and still make good $$ and STILL excel in the legal field later on EVEN IF it takes time.
Just don't lose hope and carve your own path if you have to. Look into places you would have never considered. BE HUMBLE AND LEARN SOMETHING.