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OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:01 pm
by Legacy Rabbit
Situation:
1. I have an offer that starts next Monday
- I love the team, I was hired during the initial interview. Background and offer letter was emailed to me within hours. However, salary is still under negotiation. The hiring manager does not make salary decisions. HR and I are still negotiating. However, this institution is the leading med institution in my area.
2. I received another offer today, this morning. Pay is close to 100k a year with a leading financial institution.
3. I have a (five hour) interview this Wednesday with another leading financial institution. Salary has yet to be negotiated but the company is not even two miles away from where I live. It is a F100.
4. A NY based company is flying me to do the meet and greet this Wednesday. I have had three video-conference / phone interviews. Now they are ready to meet me. The recruiter told me there is a 90 percent chance I will be hired. Pay is $115K for NY (they will not budge but will give me an upfront bonus to count as relocation)
5. I am still interviewing with a top consulting agency. The recruiter told me that the hiring manager liked me and said I will be ready for the position. The hiring manager wants me to meet the client (on site). This company is a preeminent consulting/tech company (current clients include 89 of the Fortune Global 100 and more than three-quarters of the Fortune Global 500). Pay will be 100k.
All of these interviews / offers are in my areas, except #4.
#3 and #4 there is a conflict with time. I have reached out to #4 to move the flight to later in the evening. Still awaiting feedback.
Please excuse grammar.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:03 pm
by chup
Is there a point to all this, or should we all just go ahead and tell you to fuck your own face?
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:06 pm
by ResolutePear
Retake.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:08 pm
by star fox
Good for you? Go fuck yourself.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:09 pm
by goden
fuck your own face
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:11 pm
by OhBoyOhBortles
ResolutePear wrote:Retake.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:13 pm
by bjsesq
I'm glad things are going so well for you?
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:14 pm
by Johann
why are the on topics bleeding into the lounge. i thought the fact we hated law was clear enough from the on topics.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:14 pm
by sd5289
OhBoyOhBortles wrote:ResolutePear wrote:Retake.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:17 pm
by dailygrind
I think Columbia is the best fit for you.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:19 pm
by sopranorleone
sd5289 wrote:OhBoyOhBortles wrote:ResolutePear wrote:Retake.
and
goden wrote:fuck your own face
in no particular order
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:20 pm
by bjsesq
FFS, made the mistake of reading this dude's post history.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:24 pm
by Legacy Rabbit
bjsesq wrote:I'm glad things are going so well for you?
It is my fault for not being clear. I have never had to turn down offers or interviews. I am asking for help on how to professionally turn down offers and interviews, while being professional and not burn bridges with the recruiters / hiring managers.
I am asking for help from those who have been in similar situations.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:26 pm
by star fox
Legacy Rabbit wrote:bjsesq wrote:I'm glad things are going so well for you?
It is my fault for not being clear. I have never had to turn down offers or interviews. I am asking for help on how to professionally turn down offers and interviews, while being professional and not burn bridges with the recruiters / hiring managers.
I am asking for help from those who have been in similar situations.
Talk to jbagelboy.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:26 pm
by History_Buff
Legacy Rabbit wrote:bjsesq wrote:I'm glad things are going so well for you?
It is my fault for not being clear. I have never had to turn down offers or interviews. I am asking for help on how to professionally turn down offers and interviews, while being professional and not burn bridges with the recruiters / hiring managers.
I am asking for help from those who have been in similar situations.
Lol.
Dude, you're not gonna be well received.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:27 pm
by goden
star fox wrote:Legacy Rabbit wrote:bjsesq wrote:I'm glad things are going so well for you?
It is my fault for not being clear. I have never had to turn down offers or interviews. I am asking for help on how to professionally turn down offers and interviews, while being professional and not burn bridges with the recruiters / hiring managers.
I am asking for help from those who have been in similar situations.
Talk to jbagelboy.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:27 pm
by bjsesq
Tell them you're withdrawing, thank them for their time, and tell them how great your experience with them was. What's the issue? This is generic shit.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 4:27 pm
by A. Nony Mouse
I've moved this to Legal Employment.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 5:01 pm
by catinthewall
Would this qualify as a "humble brag"?
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 5:07 pm
by unlicensedpotato
OP, good work in the other thread disposing of those anti-Baylor trolls. I'm happy to know that you are also achieving significant professional success outside of TLS. I know you'll crush all of your interviews!
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 5:36 pm
by mr.hands
I'm still not sure what the point of your thread is (other than to brag). It can't be about getting advice in turning down offers. There's no advice to give about that. It's a three sentence email... Your OP is 10x longer than that
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 5:43 pm
by BigZuck
Legacy Rabbit wrote:I am asking for help from those who have been in similar situations.
Am I the only one that didn't see a single question in the OP? I couldn't tell that the OP was asking for help.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 5:44 pm
by rinkrat19
catinthewall wrote:Would this qualify as a "humble brag"?
No, because it's missing the humble part.
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 5:51 pm
by Unagi
Cool
Re: OFFERS / INTERVIEWS...and conflicts
Posted: Mon May 04, 2015 8:56 pm
by masque du pantsu
Going out on a limb to assume OP actually wants advice here, answer is obviously this:
bjsesq wrote:Tell them you're withdrawing, thank them for their time, and tell them how great your experience with them was. What's the issue? This is generic shit.
There's really nothing else you can do besides be respectful and professional; some will take it poorly (prob for reasons personal to them), but the rest will wish you well or even tell you to keep in touch if plans change.
You can't keep every door open forever. Some will close, and you have to accept that or be paralyzed by indecision forever.