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Kirkland no-contact pre OCI

Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 8:45 pm
by Anonymous User
So one of my best friend's from college's best friend is a partner from Kirkland. As background, partner and I definitely know one another--have attended weddings together, I went to her 30th bday party (which was really small), etc.

I reached out to her twice in the past two months because the partner just moved to my city (she's never lived here), but she hasn't responded. This is odd because (i) presumably she's new in town and would generally be excited about the activity I was asking about (going wine tasting) and (ii) I pinged her personal and firm email, so even if it was marked spam at one, unlikely to be marked as spam for both.

Does Kirkland have an unofficial no-contact rule for rising 2Ls? Anyone know? My school has no prohibition on this sort of thing, and, frankly, I probably don't have the background to work at KE anyway. So I was just genuinely being friendly, and she is genuinely being uncharacteristically quiet.

Beyond just being slammed, seems odd she didn't write back at all to say, "I'm slammed...let's catch up in a few months."

Thoughts?

Re: Kirkland no-contact pre OCI

Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 8:46 pm
by jd20132013
Please confirm whether or not you're serious. if this is trolling it's perfectly placed on the edge because I could imagine someone actually thinking this. if i had to put money I'd guess trolling though

Re: Kirkland no-contact pre OCI

Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 9:01 pm
by AntipodeanPhil
Find out if she is interviewing at your school's OCI. If so, I would recommend bidding on an interview with Kirkland, so you can find out once and for all whether she wants to go to the wine tasting.

In the unlikely event that this is serious: dude, she's probably just busy and didn't get time to respond. Either that or she doesn't like you.

Re: Kirkland no-contact pre OCI

Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 9:04 pm
by Anonymous User
Anonymous User wrote:So one of my best friend's from college's best friend is a partner from Kirkland. As background, partner and I definitely know one another--have attended weddings together, I went to her 30th bday party (which was really small), etc.

I reached out to her twice in the past two months because the partner just moved to my city (she's never lived here), but she hasn't responded. This is odd because (i) presumably she's new in town and would generally be excited about the activity I was asking about (going wine tasting) and (ii) I pinged her personal and firm email, so even if it was marked spam at one, unlikely to be marked as spam for both.

Does Kirkland have an unofficial no-contact rule for rising 2Ls? Anyone know? My school has no prohibition on this sort of thing, and, frankly, I probably don't have the background to work at KE anyway. So I was just genuinely being friendly, and she is genuinely being uncharacteristically quiet.

Beyond just being slammed, seems odd she didn't write back at all to say, "I'm slammed...let's catch up in a few months."

Thoughts?
I've reached out to those in Chicago and had conversations w/o issue.

Re: Kirkland no-contact pre OCI

Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 9:08 pm
by El Pollito
What did these emails say?

Re: Kirkland no-contact pre OCI

Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 9:13 pm
by Hutz_and_Goodman
If this isn't a troll past the emails here and put XXXXX for names and email addresses

Re: Kirkland no-contact pre OCI

Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 9:32 pm
by Anonymous User
Anonymous User wrote:
Anonymous User wrote:So one of my best friend's from college's best friend is a partner from Kirkland. As background, partner and I definitely know one another--have attended weddings together, I went to her 30th bday party (which was really small), etc.

I reached out to her twice in the past two months because the partner just moved to my city (she's never lived here), but she hasn't responded. This is odd because (i) presumably she's new in town and would generally be excited about the activity I was asking about (going wine tasting) and (ii) I pinged her personal and firm email, so even if it was marked spam at one, unlikely to be marked as spam for both.

Does Kirkland have an unofficial no-contact rule for rising 2Ls? Anyone know? My school has no prohibition on this sort of thing, and, frankly, I probably don't have the background to work at KE anyway. So I was just genuinely being friendly, and she is genuinely being uncharacteristically quiet.

Beyond just being slammed, seems odd she didn't write back at all to say, "I'm slammed...let's catch up in a few months."

Thoughts?
I've reached out to those in Chicago and had conversations w/o issue.

Re: Kirkland no-contact pre OCI

Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 10:30 pm
by POTUS2044
Bro never double text u serious??

also pics or gtfo

Re: Kirkland no-contact pre OCI

Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 10:32 pm
by jbagelboy
Why not ask the best friend from college

Re: Kirkland no-contact pre OCI

Posted: Mon Jul 14, 2014 11:04 pm
by johnnyquest
jbagelboy wrote:Why not ask the best friend from college
...because its a troll

Re: Kirkland no-contact pre OCI

Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2014 12:45 am
by Anonymous User
Not a troll. I did reach out to friend from college to get partner's personal email (I didn't have it bc we haven't talked in a smidge). You can't force someone to hang with you, but she's normally super-friendly and would have jumped at the chance to hang, and I was wondering if recruiting is the issue. Sounds like it isn't!

Re: Kirkland no-contact pre OCI

Posted: Tue Jul 15, 2014 12:51 am
by jbagelboy
Anonymous User wrote:Not a troll. I did reach out to friend from college to get partner's personal email (I didn't have it bc we haven't talked in a smidge). You can't force someone to hang with you, but she's normally super-friendly and would have jumped at the chance to hang, and I was wondering if recruiting is the issue. Sounds like it isn't!
I meant ask the best friend from college why you're getting the cold shoulder. Any bad blow & tequila nights together you blocked out but slipped thru on her? Y'know kirkland goes hard, then way stone-wallier.

Accidental anon: its jbagel