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over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:05 am
by Anonymous User
i read on TLS that someone got an informational interview after the partner has turned down his application. so meeting up over coffee = rejection?

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Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:12 am
by Myself
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Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:13 am
by Anonymous User
yes, but partners also meet up with people even though they have turned them down, am I right? I believe I have read stories here before....
I think if he considers me a good candidate, he should arrange a formal interview.

Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:18 am
by cu_arsenal
Anonymous User wrote:yes, but partners also meet up with people even though they have turned them down, am I right? I believe I have read stories here before....
I think if he considers me a good candidate, he should arrange a formal interview.
No. You sent him some information and he wants to see if you can walk and chew gum at the same time. This is why firms also have OCI screeners.

The rational response to such an invitation is "That's great. He got back to me, didn't reject me outright, and I can prove to him why I am a good fit at his firm."

Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:20 am
by Anonymous User
but this is a city where I have significant ties. could it be that I sounded so eager in my email that he wanted to act nice by rejecting me and offering some 'useful' advice ?

Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:24 am
by Fark-o-vision
Ridiculous concern, and you should be ridiculed, but I won't. Look, many employers would have just ignored your email, or at best sent you a form rejection. Significant ties are not a reason to hire someone, they are just a reason to not not hire someone. Be thankful that he's meeting with you at all, push for the job, and if he is just trying to give some helpful advice then take him up on it.

Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:28 am
by Anonymous User
sigh

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Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:31 am
by Myself
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Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:32 am
by Myself
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Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:32 am
by shock259
Chill the fuck out.

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Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:36 am
by Myself
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Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:37 am
by cu_arsenal
ajax adonis wrote:I don't get it. What are the alternatives here? What would you have rather had him do? He really had three options: tell you he's busy/booked and can't meet up with you; not respond to you; or ask you to meet up with him. He asked you to meet up with him. Go forth and make conversation. Would you have rather had him ask you to get lunch with him? "Ohhh, guys, I don't know if he's going to reject me. He only asked for LUNCH. I'm sure he's just trying to let me down easy or else he would've responded quicker asking me to get dinner instead. What should I do? He's probably doing this because I took PR instead of Antitrust."
I'm laughing really hard at this. Thanks.

Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 10:09 am
by Miller32
I used to find this site helpful and interesting. Then I realized the same threads/conversations pop up over and over again.

Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 10:21 am
by lolwat
Miller32 wrote:I used to find this site helpful and interesting. Then I realized the same threads/conversations pop up over and over again.
tbf, it's because this forum is an endless cycle of new law students, so naturally they'll have a lot of the same questions that their predecessors had. you'd think the answers would be there for them to search, but sometimes they aren't, and sometimes the dudes are just lazy.

Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 10:24 am
by cinephile
Miller32 wrote:I used to find this site helpful and interesting. Then I realized the same threads/conversations pop up over and over again.
Yeah, every year people repeat the same concerns and don't search. You still pick up new information, though.

Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 10:27 am
by nevdash
lolwat wrote:
Miller32 wrote:I used to find this site helpful and interesting. Then I realized the same threads/conversations pop up over and over again.
tbf, it's because this forum is an endless cycle of new law students, so naturally they'll have a lot of the same questions that their predecessors had. you'd think the answers would be there for them to search, but sometimes they aren't, and sometimes the dudes are just lazy.
Or TLS's search function is just the worst.

Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 10:29 am
by lolwat
that too, point being that the same questions come up because they're the same questions every new rising 1l/2l/3l will have. unavoidable given the nature of this forum.

Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2012 3:48 pm
by Miller32
lolwat wrote:that too, point being that the same questions come up because they're the same questions every new rising 1l/2l/3l will have. unavoidable given the nature of this forum.
Agree. But it seems like every thread now is either (1) "oh shit, I'm in mildly (at best) awkward situation and am totally over-thinking it. What should I do?," or (2) here's my GPA and school, what are my chances!?!?

Then some people act like they have a clue when they really don't, and some people post shit-eating (but sometimes entertaining) comments making fun of the OP. Eventually people start arguing about nothing. The end.

Re: over coffee: rejection?

Posted: Tue Jul 24, 2012 12:54 pm
by manofjustice
This thread is hilarious! It really brightened my day.