Horrible Interviewing
Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 2:10 am
From the anecdotes you have heard of other students, are these people who interview terribly complete aspies, or people you can talk to casually but just bad at interviewing?
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I think it varies. Sometimes you get your aspies, sometimes you get people who are just obvious dicks (arrogance or no filter or whatever), and sometimes you get people who are genuinely cool, easygoing, and laid back, but they just don't come across well in an interview for whatever reason. Maybe they get stiff during their interview, or they have poor body language or something. Also, being slovenly dressed is also a big dealbreaker for a lot of interviewers.Anonymous User wrote:From the anecdotes you have heard of other students, are these people who interview terribly complete aspies, or people you can talk to casually but just bad at interviewing?
I know I'm not supposed to post in this forum yet, but this is generally an issue for me. What do you think are the best ways to get past that? A lot of practice interviews? A couple shots?romothesavior wrote:I think it varies. Sometimes you get your aspies, sometimes you get people who are just obvious dicks (arrogance or no filter or whatever), and sometimes you get people who are genuinely cool, easygoing, and laid back, but they just don't come across well in an interview for whatever reason. Maybe they get stiff during their interview, or they have poor body language or something. Also, being slovenly dressed is also a big dealbreaker for a lot of interviewers.Anonymous User wrote:From the anecdotes you have heard of other students, are these people who interview terribly complete aspies, or people you can talk to casually but just bad at interviewing?
Why? What is the point of this thread?
I'm like that. Try to do practice interviews with attorneys that have interviewed before and tell them to be super-blunt. I have a tendency to come across as anxious when I'm nervous, and it showed in my interviews and turned people off. I think hearing your flaws out loud helps a ton because then you know exactly what to work on. I was able to fix it enough to land something and I'm working on it again now that I'm here.JamMasterJ wrote:I know I'm not supposed to post in this forum yet, but this is generally an issue for me. What do you think are the best ways to get past that? A lot of practice interviews? A couple shots?romothesavior wrote:I think it varies. Sometimes you get your aspies, sometimes you get people who are just obvious dicks (arrogance or no filter or whatever), and sometimes you get people who are genuinely cool, easygoing, and laid back, but they just don't come across well in an interview for whatever reason. Maybe they get stiff during their interview, or they have poor body language or something. Also, being slovenly dressed is also a big dealbreaker for a lot of interviewers.Anonymous User wrote:From the anecdotes you have heard of other students, are these people who interview terribly complete aspies, or people you can talk to casually but just bad at interviewing?
Why? What is the point of this thread?
Thanks. I was curious about whether something like this qualifies as below average interviewing, or whether it is just terrible and will kill your shot at a job.romothesavior wrote:I think it varies. Sometimes you get your aspies, sometimes you get people who are just obvious dicks (arrogance or no filter or whatever), and sometimes you get people who are genuinely cool, easygoing, and laid back, but they just don't come across well in an interview for whatever reason. Maybe they get stiff during their interview, or they have poor body language or something. Also, being slovenly dressed is also a big dealbreaker for a lot of interviewers.Anonymous User wrote:From the anecdotes you have heard of other students, are these people who interview terribly complete aspies, or people you can talk to casually but just bad at interviewing?
Why? What is the point of this thread?
If you have good enough grades to overcome it, it won't totally kill your shot at a job. But if you know you come across as unlikeable, you are better off figuring out WHY you come across as unlikeable and work on fixing it. Not just for OCI, but for life too.Anonymous User wrote:Thanks. I was curious about whether something like this qualifies as below average interviewing, or whether it is just terrible and will kill your shot at a job.romothesavior wrote:I think it varies. Sometimes you get your aspies, sometimes you get people who are just obvious dicks (arrogance or no filter or whatever), and sometimes you get people who are genuinely cool, easygoing, and laid back, but they just don't come across well in an interview for whatever reason. Maybe they get stiff during their interview, or they have poor body language or something. Also, being slovenly dressed is also a big dealbreaker for a lot of interviewers.Anonymous User wrote:From the anecdotes you have heard of other students, are these people who interview terribly complete aspies, or people you can talk to casually but just bad at interviewing?
Why? What is the point of this thread?
I thought this too and basically blew off any concerns since I had a job prior to law school and had done interviews before and never had a problem. I was so dead wrong that it wasn't even funny.abc12345675 wrote:How do you "interview horribly?" I don't understand, you're just having a conversation with another human being.
I'm pretty shy and often feel anxious when talking to strangers, so that can translate into awkwardness during interviews. I usually admit to it at the beginning though, and the interviewers have always been extremely kind to me in response. When I've ended up with a job offer, they usually comment about my honesty having been endearing to them and making me a more attractive candidate because of it.abc12345675 wrote:How do you "interview horribly?" I don't understand, you're just having a conversation with another human being.