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Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 3:02 pm
by Anonymous User
Aware me on whether or not this is allowed.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 3:05 pm
by duckmoney
I would think if the firm has a policy prohibiting it that you've been actually or constructively made aware of, then don't do it, otherwise it's fair game.

I can't possibly see how it could lead to good results though, given that you'll likely be working closely that person for the next 2+ years. Just sounds awkward and unnecessary.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 3:07 pm
by Cavalier
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Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 3:11 pm
by Anonymous User
Don't shit where you eat.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 3:19 pm
by MrPapagiorgio
Even worse than teh lawcest. In school, there is a chance that you will work at the same firm at graduation. As a summer associate, there is a very good chance that you will work at the same firm at graduation.

To quote another poster on TLS: there are only two outcomes: either you get married, or it will end horribly.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 3:22 pm
by nealric
Worked for Obama.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 3:31 pm
by Anonymous User
People are going to say no, but I say go for it. Make sure you're clear about where it's going though so she doesn't think you actually want to date her.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 3:40 pm
by Shaggier1
Worked for Obama.
Nice.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 3:46 pm
by Anonymous User
Nah, just too much chance of it turning out badly. If it turns out badly (as it often does), you leave that person with a loaded gun to torpedo you in a way no outsider can. Bang summers from other firms. They will be easy to find in a big city over the summer.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 3:47 pm
by Bobby Jones
Anonymous User wrote:People are going to say no, but I say go for it. Make sure you're clear about where it's going though so she doesn't think you actually want to date her.
Lol, exactly. This ALWAYS works.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 3:49 pm
by thesealocust
Hooking up with summers is amateur hour. Don't even post unless you step your game up to associates, and know that summers in classes before you have hooked up with - and even wound up dating / marrying - partners. Go big or go home.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 3:57 pm
by Blindmelon
Anonymous User wrote:Don't shit where you eat.
+1. Make your friends at other firms introduce you to those summer associates.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 4:19 pm
by Old Gregg
Back when I was a summer, I hooked up with over 50% of the summer class. Granted, over half of the summer class was male, but you can't be picky ITE.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 4:24 pm
by 071816
Aware you??

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 4:30 pm
by HETPE3B
nealric wrote:Worked for Obama.
Pretty sure she was a full time associate at the time. Even better.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 4:40 pm
by turbotong
Have some self respect. Don't hit on other summers. Go for partners only.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 4:41 pm
by turbotong
Lol Kidding!

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 4:43 pm
by dreakol
you have nothing to worry about

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 4:46 pm
by Mal Reynolds
chimp wrote:Aware you??
Thank you. This is just terrible. And also not funny enough to convince me that it's a joke.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 4:48 pm
by thesealocust
Mal Reynolds wrote:
chimp wrote:Aware you??
Thank you. This is just terrible. And also not funny enough to convince me that it's a joke.
It's a long-standing joke / meme. You don't have to like it, but it has deep roots.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 4:51 pm
by Old Gregg
Mal Reynolds wrote:
chimp wrote:Aware you??
Thank you. This is just terrible. And also not funny enough to convince me that it's a joke.
This coming from the guy who hooked up with one of his ship-mates. I get that she was a prostitute, but geez man have some standards.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 5:00 pm
by Mal Reynolds
My interwebs noob status has been out on display for everyone to see. I will say good day now.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 5:01 pm
by romothesavior
I plan to.

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 5:20 pm
by Grizz
I don't plan to. I don't need any wimminz to distract me from the brilliant memos I'm gonna write brah

Re: Hooking up with other summer associates

Posted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 5:32 pm
by patrickd139
Grizz wrote:I don't plan to. I don't need any wimminz to distract me from the brilliant memos I'm gonna write brah
No one actually reads those past the point of "Can s/he write one? Ok."

I'm with TSL: get that pansy shit out of here unless you're hooking up with actual associates.