Rejecting an offer
Posted: Tue Aug 30, 2011 7:49 pm
Can I e-mail or should I call?
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Call, then send a follow-up email right after if you have to leave a voicemail.somethingdemure wrote:Can I e-mail or should I call?
imchuckbass58 wrote:Call recruiting.
This is pretty accurate, however, if you've been in touch with a partner since the callback (hiring partner or interviewer for example), then I would recommend emailing them and cc'ing the recruiter. Make sure to say how much you liked the firm, it was a hard decision, etc, since you never know when you'll cross paths in the future.Big Shrimpin wrote:I've called and emailed. I don't think it really matters, nor do the recruiting coordinators care that much. Calling is probably more efficient, however, since it won't get lost in the shuffle of the daily email barrage.
Why? Especially if you can call someone you know/who made the offer...thank them profusely, say how much you enjoyed meeting everyone, but that after much thought and consideration, you have decided to accept another offer.ruski wrote:calling is uncomfortable and weird.
how would you like to get a phone call from a recruiter saying how great you were and how much they loved meeting you, but they weren't going to extend you an offer.jkay wrote:Why? Especially if you can call someone you know/who made the offer...thank them profusely, say how much you enjoyed meeting everyone, but that after much thought and consideration, you have decided to accept another offer.ruski wrote:calling is uncomfortable and weird.
This is not hard. This is not uncomfortable. This is a GREAT opportunity to gracefully and gently close a door that one day you may want to open again. Nothing bad can happen.
Defintely good points, dood. IIRC, I did something similar and the firm contact said to contact them if I was ever interested in lateralling later. Being a normal human being goes a loooooong way.Sup Kid wrote:This is pretty accurate, however, if you've been in touch with a partner since the callback (hiring partner or interviewer for example), then I would recommend emailing them and cc'ing the recruiter. Make sure to say how much you liked the firm, it was a hard decision, etc, since you never know when you'll cross paths in the future.Big Shrimpin wrote:I've called and emailed. I don't think it really matters, nor do the recruiting coordinators care that much. Calling is probably more efficient, however, since it won't get lost in the shuffle of the daily email barrage.
I dunno. Some of the partners I have talked to seem genuinely interested in recruiting people. They don't make offers to people to come work with/for them to people they won't remember. And, for me, most fo the communication I have had is with the partners/associates not with recruiting.ruski wrote:how would you like to get a phone call from a recruiter saying how great you were and how much they loved meeting you, but they weren't going to extend you an offer.jkay wrote:Why? Especially if you can call someone you know/who made the offer...thank them profusely, say how much you enjoyed meeting everyone, but that after much thought and consideration, you have decided to accept another offer.ruski wrote:calling is uncomfortable and weird.
This is not hard. This is not uncomfortable. This is a GREAT opportunity to gracefully and gently close a door that one day you may want to open again. Nothing bad can happen.
and its pretty silly to think a recruiter would even remember something like this. they wont even remember your name. no need to "gently close the door" here. i know it's hard to believe but they really dont care about you. they interview dozens of kids and their goal is to do their job and fill the necessary number of spots.