dabbadon8 wrote:I have an appointment to talk to a biglaw associate that is an alum of both my UG and future LS. They practice on the transactional side, M&A and what not, in a market I would like to work in. I am interested in getting some info, but also hopefully making a connection I can keep open for future employment. What are some good questions to ask? Also how direct should I be... should I ask specific questions about whether they hire 1L SA's, what their firm looks for, etc... or would this possibly be a turn off? Any tips for how I can leave things with them, so that I could maintain an open line of communication? (As opposed to just saying "thanks for talking to me, have a nice day") Thanks for the help.
Ok I should be studying right now, but I keep seeing this sentiment over and over again on here and wanted to post a longer reply. But regarding your specific situation, look up the firm on the NALP directory. Don't be awkward, get a card, then send him an update email when you get your grades back if they're good or before spring OCI interviews. As soon as you're out of sight, write down three unique/important things about the interview on the card.
When I met with attorneys, it would generally follow this chronology. Intro --> talk about whatever/their background --> transition to what they do --> take what they said and apply it to what I wanted to find out ("saw you clerked for federal district judge but you do transactional; what's up with that?) --> bullshit about sports interlude --> what I plan to do in the future/prospective advice --> conclusion and business card. Most young associates are pretty chill, you can judge how informal and blunt to be based on the flow of the conversation.
(1) Meeting and knowing associates (and most partners) will be next to no help in securing employment
Saying you know an associate is like saying you know a branch manager at Bank of America. Yeah, pretty sweet job, but small fucking potatoes in the scheme of things. Most partners are not going to bat for a guy or girl they met twice for lunch; their rep is on the line just as much as yours.
What it CAN do is show the firm that you took the time to meet with someone who works there and project a feigned or actual interest in that particular firm. Law firms are super-homogeneous, but everyone likes being told that they are special. Associates, especially recent grads (post 2008) can give you great interview tidbits about what the firm likes to hear and what groups they're looking to expand.
(2) Unless you have a clearly demonstrable background in a field, beware of appearing too gung-ho about it.
If someone came up to me and told me that they were interested in M&A without a finance background or experience in a similar field, I would struggle not to laugh in their face. To me, that would code in my brain to the person has no idea what M&A work is and has models & bottles on the mind--another person with I-banker penis envy. Yeah, some people are die-hard public interest or a specific niche field, but most people don't expect you to have a particular field you want to go into. I think--to a certain degree--firms like when you admit many things interest you that would like to explore further without saying, "I guess I like everything."
(3) Don't bug your connections, but say something when you have a reason to say so.
Send out a "pulse" every few months just to remind people you exist, but make it for something that mattered. Here's an example from me:
I had lunch with a partner at a midlaw firm that pays secondary market. I asked him about what he found most valuable outside of classes at law school. He said to join the Inn of Court (a type of networking organization). So I did when I got here. BUT show self-restraint here. I didn't email him "hey I signed up for that thing you said" because at that point I hadn't really done anything. Instead, I waited two months until after I attended some meetings. Then I sent him a message about how valuable and helpful the organization had been (it was) and that I really appreciated his opinion. Got a great note back and the partner reminded me that his firm comes to our OCI (like I didn't know that, but a nice touch). Show the person (a) you listened to them (b) you did something to act on what you were told (c) that you appreciate what you told them.
edit: of course, listen to any actual attorneys over me but what I said above has worked really well for me so far. I doubt anyone would disagree with what I wrote above though.