Can I turn down an acceptance and reapply without burning bridges?
Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2025 3:23 pm
I got one T14 but am feeling ambivalent. The environment isn’t the best fit, and the scholarship leaves me in more debt than I am comfortable with. I don’t have much leverage to get them to budge. I’m writing LOCIs and riding waitlists but I don’t expect much movement this year.
I’m considering reapplying as early as next cycle. I applied narrowly, submitted most applications between late December and early January, and a few in mid-January. I’m pretty unhappy with my cycle. My only issue is, I demonstrated tons of interest in the school I got into. This interest evaporated once I actually visited. My only fear surrounding a reapplication is that my current T14 would (reasonably) not let me in again because they wouldn’t trust me to attend. I’m a splitter, so crossing even one T14 off the table would really hurt me.
Is there any way to turn this offer down and not burn this bridge? The first deposit (non-binding) is in a few days, and another month until the second one (binding).
Thanks.
I’m considering reapplying as early as next cycle. I applied narrowly, submitted most applications between late December and early January, and a few in mid-January. I’m pretty unhappy with my cycle. My only issue is, I demonstrated tons of interest in the school I got into. This interest evaporated once I actually visited. My only fear surrounding a reapplication is that my current T14 would (reasonably) not let me in again because they wouldn’t trust me to attend. I’m a splitter, so crossing even one T14 off the table would really hurt me.
Is there any way to turn this offer down and not burn this bridge? The first deposit (non-binding) is in a few days, and another month until the second one (binding).
Thanks.