International student, 161, should I give up?
Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2017 12:01 am
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These are your only 2 choices?x595 wrote:Native Chinese.
I'd like to retake but it is impossible within 2 years.(153-157-161). GPA:AA
Applied to a dozen of schools located in NYC, DC, CA.
Highly considering going to cardozo because of full ride, location, and great intellectual property program ( I know that ranking doesn't mean a lot though). I know how slight my chance would be to go to big law, especially as a Chinese who has never studied abroad yet.
161 is not good to me at all, I pretested from 160-170, I think I can work hard and score higher but I am also afraid of waiting for another 2 years.
I think so far my choices are :
A. Going to cardozo with 29K/yr COL, which is afforable but still not a small number for my family. →Study my ass of and get into Top 10% or even better (I am also not confident enough because I don't know how extremely hard I must study to make my English more solid to weaken my disadvantage in language)→Be lucky enough ( in interviews and h1b visa)
B. Do not go. I didn't get high scores but i still studied hard for lsat and put a lot of effort in application. I hate to give up but this seems to be a choice, the path is really vague for me if I want to work in U.S.
I'd appreciate it if there is any advice and helpful information. Thanks.
Thank you so much friend.pleasesendhelp wrote:Have you considered other states? A 161/AA gives you a chance at a decent number of T1 schools that could offer sizable scholarships that in turn can be used to negotiate more money at schools you want to go to. I would send out more applications and see how things work out this cycle as there's still time (though not much) to broaden your options. If you are dead set on choosing A or B, then I would suggest B. Getting into the top 10% is not easy as everyone at that school is trying to be at the top 10% and if you're lacking confidence now, and you've never studied in the states, it'll be even more difficult without a support system. I would like to encourage you to not limit yourself to those two choices. Focus on increasing your options. 161 is not a bad score at all, so dont sell yourself short.
Are we talking Benjamin Button issues here or what? TBF your age/accomplishments/etc are no one's business (family included) but your own. If your family wouldn't be happy/proud/etc of you if you didn't start LS until 25, screw em. At some point you'll have to make a break from them anyway to become your own person.x595 wrote:I understand there are many people attending law schools after 25 y.o. and I personally don't think it's bad at all. Age is just a personal issue for me and my family that is kinda hard to explain.
East Asians have a very different relationship with family members than we Americans do. It might not be easy for OP, given his cultural background, to tell his parents to F off.mrgstephe wrote:Are we talking Benjamin Button issues here or what? TBF your age/accomplishments/etc are no one's business (family included) but your own. If your family wouldn't be happy/proud/etc of you if you didn't start LS until 25, screw em. At some point you'll have to make a break from them anyway to become your own person.x595 wrote:I understand there are many people attending law schools after 25 y.o. and I personally don't think it's bad at all. Age is just a personal issue for me and my family that is kinda hard to explain.
FWIW, I'm 25 and am just now considering going. Might even sit a year to retake and break into 170+ depending on how $$$ comes out this cycle
I am aware that it is different, but at some point if OP wants to become established as a lawyer in the US and their family remains in Asia, they will have to break ties eventually. No way a NYC biglaw lawyer has the time or flexibility to keep that sort of consistent contact with family in such a vastly different timezone.dm1683 wrote:East Asians have a very different relationship with family members than we Americans do. It might not be easy for OP, given his cultural background, to tell his parents to F off.mrgstephe wrote:Are we talking Benjamin Button issues here or what? TBF your age/accomplishments/etc are no one's business (family included) but your own. If your family wouldn't be happy/proud/etc of you if you didn't start LS until 25, screw em. At some point you'll have to make a break from them anyway to become your own person.x595 wrote:I understand there are many people attending law schools after 25 y.o. and I personally don't think it's bad at all. Age is just a personal issue for me and my family that is kinda hard to explain.
FWIW, I'm 25 and am just now considering going. Might even sit a year to retake and break into 170+ depending on how $$$ comes out this cycle
Well put - very true. It's clear OP has a lot of thinking to do.mrgstephe wrote:I am aware that it is different, but at some point if OP wants to become established as a lawyer in the US and their family remains in Asia, they will have to break ties eventually. No way a NYC biglaw lawyer has the time or flexibility to keep that sort of consistent contact with family in such a vastly different timezone.dm1683 wrote:East Asians have a very different relationship with family members than we Americans do. It might not be easy for OP, given his cultural background, to tell his parents to F off.mrgstephe wrote:Are we talking Benjamin Button issues here or what? TBF your age/accomplishments/etc are no one's business (family included) but your own. If your family wouldn't be happy/proud/etc of you if you didn't start LS until 25, screw em. At some point you'll have to make a break from them anyway to become your own person.x595 wrote:I understand there are many people attending law schools after 25 y.o. and I personally don't think it's bad at all. Age is just a personal issue for me and my family that is kinda hard to explain.
FWIW, I'm 25 and am just now considering going. Might even sit a year to retake and break into 170+ depending on how $$$ comes out this cycle
It'll be a growing pain, and definitely not easy, but at some point if this is their goal, I'd expect it is a decision that will have to be made. Better to do it now IMO than when they're 30 and disappointed that they never got the chance to make a name for themselves. But then again, I'm American and didn't grow up in that system, so take my words with as much importance as you want to put on them.
Yes it is hard to just tell my family to F off (and I don't want to either). And in this system it may even be different for women. I personally don't care if there is an appropriate age for finding an significant other,marriage,LS etc. What's more, my family didn't really interfere with it. It's just my personal concern and like I said, it is really hard to break it down.dm1683 wrote:Well put - very true. It's clear OP has a lot of thinking to do.mrgstephe wrote:I am aware that it is different, but at some point if OP wants to become established as a lawyer in the US and their family remains in Asia, they will have to break ties eventually. No way a NYC biglaw lawyer has the time or flexibility to keep that sort of consistent contact with family in such a vastly different timezone.dm1683 wrote:East Asians have a very different relationship with family members than we Americans do. It might not be easy for OP, given his cultural background, to tell his parents to F off.mrgstephe wrote:Are we talking Benjamin Button issues here or what? TBF your age/accomplishments/etc are no one's business (family included) but your own. If your family wouldn't be happy/proud/etc of you if you didn't start LS until 25, screw em. At some point you'll have to make a break from them anyway to become your own person.x595 wrote:I understand there are many people attending law schools after 25 y.o. and I personally don't think it's bad at all. Age is just a personal issue for me and my family that is kinda hard to explain.
FWIW, I'm 25 and am just now considering going. Might even sit a year to retake and break into 170+ depending on how $$$ comes out this cycle
It'll be a growing pain, and definitely not easy, but at some point if this is their goal, I'd expect it is a decision that will have to be made. Better to do it now IMO than when they're 30 and disappointed that they never got the chance to make a name for themselves. But then again, I'm American and didn't grow up in that system, so take my words with as much importance as you want to put on them.