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Withdraw app or let deposit deadline pass

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 6:11 pm
by Vandy2bforrealz
I'm no longer interested in a school due to a lowball offer they have not yet chosen to negotiate with. Should I withdraw my app with an email or just let the deposit deadline pass without a second thought?

Re: Withdraw app or let deposit deadline pass

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 6:16 pm
by mist4bison
Just send an email withdrawing your app. It opens up a spot for someone else and the sooner the better, right?

Some schools take a while to get back to you when negotiating. Practice some patience.

Re: Withdraw app or let deposit deadline pass

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 6:47 pm
by Vandy2bforrealz
How many weeks must one practice patience until it is time to focus energies elsewhere?

Re: Withdraw app or let deposit deadline pass

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 10:02 pm
by birdstheword
Vandy2bforrealz wrote:How many weeks must one practice patience until it is time to focus energies elsewhere?
I like you

Re: Withdraw app or let deposit deadline pass

Posted: Tue Mar 22, 2016 10:59 pm
by spauldingno
Vandy2bforrealz wrote:How many weeks must one practice patience until it is time to focus energies elsewhere?
Did they even acknowledge your email or did you send it and they went completely dark? If the latter, maybe you can follow up with an email or call, asking if they received your previous request.

Re: Withdraw app or let deposit deadline pass

Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2016 7:41 am
by Vandy2bforrealz
I did receive an acknowledgement of my initial email within 24 hours. I checked on the status again ~2 weeks later and received a 2nd acknowledgement email almost immediately. It has been a solid month since the second inquiry.

Re: Withdraw app or let deposit deadline pass

Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2016 11:24 am
by pterodactyls
If they told you that they aren't going to negotiate, and your decision is made, I would withdraw and open up the seat to another applicant.

If they told you "we'll get back to you" and haven't yet, I'd wait and let the deadline pass. If they ask why you didn't get back to them, you can ask why they didn't get back to you.

Just my $0.02.

Re: Withdraw app or let deposit deadline pass

Posted: Wed Mar 23, 2016 3:36 pm
by Nagster5
Don't forget the out-the-door gambit. if you are planning on withdrawing anyway, try something like

"unfortunately I cannot consider X with the current financial aid package I've been offered, despite X being my favorite blah blah blah. Unless you are willing to increase my award I will be withdrawing my application on 1 April. Thank you."

Can't hurt, could work.