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Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sat Jan 18, 2014 9:02 pm
by chappeg
Hi All,
Longtime lurker here who finally decided to register. I wanted to see if anyone has any experience with my situation.
Background: Non-traditional student, 173 LSAT, 3.7 GPA. I have applied to all of the T14 schools, with confidence that I will get accepted into many or most of them. Obviously, I have my favorites, but I'm keeping an open mind until I receive the actual acceptance letters and find out my options.
My partner is still pursuing his undergrad degree in computer science (I'm returning to school after being in the working world for a few years). He wants to transfer to whatever school that I choose to attend for obvious reasons. The problem is that most or all of these schools are obviously pretty exclusive to get into. He has a strong GPA and good credentials, but obviously there is some concern that he might not get into the school that I eventually want to attend.
Does anyone know of or have experience with schools looking favorably upon admitting spouses of grad students? Are there any programs available, or is it just tough nuts if he doesn't get in?
I would appreciate any opinions/experiences with this. Thanks!
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sat Jan 18, 2014 9:47 pm
by Clearly
It's pretty much tough luck from what I've seen.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 3:37 am
by IgosduIkana
Probably not of any help but I remember this couple who both attended HBS from this CNBC doc:
http://www.hulu.com/watch/59462
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 9:31 am
by Lightworks
It won't hurt them at all. But no, they will get no boost whatsoever for this.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 10:42 am
by chappeg
Thanks guys. Not what I was hoping to hear, but pretty much what I was expecting.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 1:40 pm
by notalobbyist
He's applying to law school as well, or comp sci?
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 1:54 pm
by Big Dog
if you mean he wants to transfer to the undergrad where you are in LS? If so, that will be difficult since many of the T14 accept few undergrad transfers in general. (The obvious exceptions are the publics.) Also note that undergrad transfers generally receive no merit money, so they'll expect him to be full pay.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 2:02 pm
by arklaw13
Don't limit your options to the same school. Many T-14 cities have multiple universities in the area. If you both apply broadly there will probably be a situation that could work our for you.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 3:10 pm
by Nonconsecutive
arklaw13 wrote:Don't limit your options to the same school. Many T-14 cities have multiple universities in the area. If you both apply broadly there will probably be a situation that could work our for you.
Yeah this. I'm in a somewhat similar situation. A fair few of the T14 have good universities around them, especially in the larger cities. So unless you have some very specific reason for being at the exact same school, I don't think transferring for geographic purposes will be much of an issue.
As mentioned above, you won't receive any real boost for the dual-applicant scenario.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 5:08 pm
by cron1834
I'm glad there is no boost here. The alternative would be shameful, imo.
Although I'd like to see Spivey and KB weight in on this question (someone posed it in the other thread).
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 5:45 pm
by PalmBay
If you have the numbers, you increase the chances.
If you don't have the numbers, then tough luck.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 5:52 pm
by 09042014
Most of the T14 aren't that good for CS anyway. Though Cornell, Stanford and Boalt are.
NYU, Columbia, UVA, NU, U of C, Duke are pretty shitty, so maybe he could squeak in on his own merits.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 5:58 pm
by nothingtosee
This was posted in a thread about both applicants applying to ls. Your situation is a bit different, obviously. He suggests calling the schools, some will care, some wont.
SPerez wrote:FWIW, I want married/engaged couples to tell me they're both applying. When I see that I try to get them decisions at the same time as a courtesy.
If you're still referring to each other as boyfriend/girlfriend then I wouldn't mention it.
Also, don't take relationship advice from TLS. You could marry an 8 who is your soulmate and their advice would be to retake because if you really try you could find a 10.
Dean Perez
Texas Tech University School of Law
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 7:06 pm
by cron1834
nothingtosee wrote:This was posted in a thread about both applicants applying to ls. Your situation is a bit different, obviously. He suggests calling the schools, some will care, some wont.
SPerez wrote:FWIW, I want married/engaged couples to tell me they're both applying. When I see that I try to get them decisions at the same time as a courtesy.
If you're still referring to each other as boyfriend/girlfriend then I wouldn't mention it.
Also, don't take relationship advice from TLS. You could marry an 8 who is your soulmate and their advice would be to retake because if you really try you could find a 10.
Dean Perez
Texas Tech University School of Law
Classic.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 11:43 pm
by heythatslife
Desert Fox wrote:Most of the T14 aren't that good for CS anyway. Though Cornell, Stanford and Boalt are.
NYU, Columbia, UVA, NU, U of C, Duke are pretty shitty, so maybe he could squeak in on his own merits.
Departmental rankings aren't that important for undergrad. Maybe with the exception of Georgetown and NYU, your SO would do well in any of the T14 for CS UG.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 11:56 pm
by midwest17
Big Dog wrote:if you mean he wants to transfer to the undergrad where you are in LS? If so, that will be difficult since many of the T14 accept few undergrad transfers in general. (The obvious exceptions are the publics.) Also note that undergrad transfers generally receive no merit money, so they'll expect him to be full pay.
Do undergrads do much merit aid anyways? I've never heard of any substantial amount of merit aid.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Sun Jan 19, 2014 11:58 pm
by koval
nothingtosee wrote:This was posted in a thread about both applicants applying to ls. Your situation is a bit different, obviously. He suggests calling the schools, some will care, some wont.
SPerez wrote:FWIW, I want married/engaged couples to tell me they're both applying. When I see that I try to get them decisions at the same time as a courtesy.
If you're still referring to each other as boyfriend/girlfriend then I wouldn't mention it.
Also, don't take relationship advice from TLS. You could marry an 8 who is your soulmate and their advice would be to retake because if you really try you could find a 10.
Dean Perez
Texas Tech University School of Law
Quote of the day.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Mon Jan 20, 2014 12:09 am
by db1990
Also, don't take relationship advice from TLS. You could marry an 8 who is your soulmate and their advice would be to retake because if you really try you could find a 10.
This is amazing.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Mon Jan 20, 2014 12:25 am
by Nonconsecutive
midwest17 wrote:Do undergrads do much merit aid anyways? I've never heard of any substantial amount of merit aid.
I think my UG had some pretty big merit scholarships, 3/4 tuition or more. It was a big state school though, fwiw.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Mon Jan 20, 2014 1:18 am
by ltrego
Nonconsecutive wrote:midwest17 wrote:Do undergrads do much merit aid anyways? I've never heard of any substantial amount of merit aid.
I think my UG had some pretty big merit scholarships, 3/4 tuition or more. It was a big state school though, fwiw.
I have a 50% merit scholarship. I go to a regionally well-rated private college.
Re: Spouses Getting Admitted to the Same School?
Posted: Mon Jan 20, 2014 1:57 pm
by Crowing
midwest17 wrote:Big Dog wrote:if you mean he wants to transfer to the undergrad where you are in LS? If so, that will be difficult since many of the T14 accept few undergrad transfers in general. (The obvious exceptions are the publics.) Also note that undergrad transfers generally receive no merit money, so they'll expect him to be full pay.
Do undergrads do much merit aid anyways? I've never heard of any substantial amount of merit aid.
A lot of the top schools don't, but outside of that it's pretty common I think. Fwiw I had a full ride but I went to a public.