LOR Anxiety- Guidance Needed
Posted: Mon Oct 03, 2011 10:04 am
I know my problem isn't particularly original, but I haven't been able to find a specific answer to my question in the archives. I planned on applying to HYS and several t14 schools in the third or fourth week of September, but one of my recommenders is holding up the process. I first e-mailed him in July, met with him in August, and sent him my PS a month ago, but it's still not written. I sent a polite follow-up e-mail last month, to which he replied with a brief, somewhat rude message stating that the letter would be ready "when I have written it" and that he was sorry he couldn't be any more precise than that. It's been dead silence for the last three weeks.
I am uncertain about how I should handle the coming month, assuming I don't receive the letter this week. Obviously I don't want to further annoy my professor, given that I want him to write a positive letter, but I'm also becoming anxious about my timeline. I've seen some people say that apps submitted before Thanksgiving are in good shape, and others suggest they should be submitted before Halloween. If I can't get this final LOR processed prior to Halloween, could it significantly affect my admissions chances? I think I'm probably going to be on the border between acceptance and waitlist/rejection at HYS, so I don't want to do anything that could tip the scales. Would it be crazy for me to wait until next cycle if I see that I can't get my apps submitted until November?
I am uncertain about how I should handle the coming month, assuming I don't receive the letter this week. Obviously I don't want to further annoy my professor, given that I want him to write a positive letter, but I'm also becoming anxious about my timeline. I've seen some people say that apps submitted before Thanksgiving are in good shape, and others suggest they should be submitted before Halloween. If I can't get this final LOR processed prior to Halloween, could it significantly affect my admissions chances? I think I'm probably going to be on the border between acceptance and waitlist/rejection at HYS, so I don't want to do anything that could tip the scales. Would it be crazy for me to wait until next cycle if I see that I can't get my apps submitted until November?