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Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2011 9:37 am
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I was under the impression that you had recommenders send in generic letters to lsac that you could then send on to all of the schools to which you apply. so how would you have them write the name of the particular admissions committees? I was going to just have them say "to whom it may concern".justhockey31 wrote:I would do Dear "Mr./Mrs. (Head or director of admissions) and the admission committee"
In my opinion, this is very bad advice. You should always waive this right. If you are not confident that the prof is going to write u an outstanding letter, you should not have even considered choosing him/her. Waiving this right shows the professor, and the adcomms, that I trust this prof, this prof's letter is pure, candid and of unbiased opinion.justhockey31 wrote:Also, I would'nt waive the confidentiality...you should be absolutely sure your profs who are writing your LOR will write something positive. For example, I got 3 LORs written but only used two because I was uncertain what the 3rd said as she seemed a little less than thrilled to do it for me.
This. Definitely waive confidentiality, because if you're THAT concerned about what they're writing you shouldn't be asking them in the first place.acrossthelake wrote:You're correct.veritas curat wrote:I was under the impression that you had recommenders send in generic letters to lsac that you could then send on to all of the schools to which you apply. so how would you have them write the name of the particular admissions committees? I was going to just have them say "to whom it may concern".justhockey31 wrote:I would do Dear "Mr./Mrs. (Head or director of admissions) and the admission committee"
Do i have this wrong?
Unless they're writing a targeted letter, which they should not be doing for more than one or two schools, then yes it should be a generic letter. I don't know what my LOR writers wrote, but something generic like "To whom it may concern" should be fine.
I would absolutely waive confidentiality. It looks strange when you don't.
Lastly, people often know that they submitted LORs in their application package for one of two reasons:
1) The professor offered to let them look at it, and they did.
2) They have really close relations with the professor, so it would be very odd for the professor to not write a strong LOR.
It is not standard practice, and I actually think it to be a faux pas, to ask for a copy of the letter they will be sending unless you are absolutely certain that you're close enough for that to be okay.
I was close to mine, and I still did not ask.
I think they can offer to show your the LOR beforehand, but you probably still shouldn't be asking...Samara wrote:Also, doesn't signing the waiver just mean that you've waived the right to see the letters after the decision is rendered? I don't think it actually has anything to do with viewing the letters beforehand.
If you don't sign the waiver on the LSAC LOR form, then you can view the LOR only after you've enrolled at a school to which you submitted that letter. LSAC will not provide you with a copy of the letter, schools will not supply you with a copy of the letter until you enroll, and the LOR writers will still have no obligation to ever provide you with a copy. If you do not waive the right to view it you still won't get to see the letter until long after seeing it has lost any potential usefulness. Weigh the absolute uselessness of retaining the right to view the letter against the risk of a writer or school reading negative meaning into your failure to sign. This is a no-brainer.Samara wrote:Also, doesn't signing the waiver just mean that you've waived the right to see the letters after the decision is rendered? I don't think it actually has anything to do with viewing the letters beforehand.
Disagree completely. If you want a copy, ask if they would be ok with it and make it clear that if they are not ok with it you have no problem with that. Definitely not a "faux pas."acrossthelake wrote:You're correct.veritas curat wrote:I was under the impression that you had recommenders send in generic letters to lsac that you could then send on to all of the schools to which you apply. so how would you have them write the name of the particular admissions committees? I was going to just have them say "to whom it may concern".justhockey31 wrote:I would do Dear "Mr./Mrs. (Head or director of admissions) and the admission committee"
Do i have this wrong?
Unless they're writing a targeted letter, which they should not be doing for more than one or two schools, then yes it should be a generic letter. I don't know what my LOR writers wrote, but something generic like "To whom it may concern" should be fine.
I would absolutely waive confidentiality. It looks strange when you don't.
Lastly, people often know that they submitted LORs in their application package for one of two reasons:
1) The professor offered to let them look at it, and they did.
2) They have really close relations with the professor, so it would be very odd for the professor to not write a strong LOR.
It is not standard practice, and I actually think it to be a faux pas, to ask for a copy of the letter they will be sending unless you are absolutely certain that you're close enough for that to be okay.
I was close to mine, and I still did not ask.
You're creating a very awkward situation for your recommender. YOU may feel fine with it, but very likely your recommender will not. That is why this is a major faux pas. Don't do it.CastleRock wrote: Disagree completely. If you want a copy, ask if they would be ok with it and make it clear that if they are not ok with it you have no problem with that. Definitely not a "faux pas."
Already did it, with several professors. None of them had a problem with it and most of them saw it as normal. And on top of it I did not have a close relationship with any of them.schooner wrote:You're creating a very awkward situation for your recommender. YOU may feel fine with it, but very likely your recommender will not. That is why this is a major faux pas. Don't do it.CastleRock wrote: Disagree completely. If you want a copy, ask if they would be ok with it and make it clear that if they are not ok with it you have no problem with that. Definitely not a "faux pas."
If you don't care about maintaining any relationship with them after you get your letter, and the professors with you, I can see why baldly asking to get what you want isn't a big deal. I see it as bad manners. Ideally, academic letters of recommendation are supposed to be confidential.CastleRock wrote:Already did it, with several professors. None of them had a problem with it and most of them saw it as normal. And on top of it I did not have a close relationship with any of them.schooner wrote:You're creating a very awkward situation for your recommender. YOU may feel fine with it, but very likely your recommender will not. That is why this is a major faux pas. Don't do it.CastleRock wrote: Disagree completely. If you want a copy, ask if they would be ok with it and make it clear that if they are not ok with it you have no problem with that. Definitely not a "faux pas."
Castlerock, you may have just royally screwed up your applications.CastleRock wrote:Already did it, with several professors. None of them had a problem with it and most of them saw it as normal. And on top of it I did not have a close relationship with any of them.schooner wrote:You're creating a very awkward situation for your recommender. YOU may feel fine with it, but very likely your recommender will not. That is why this is a major faux pas. Don't do it.CastleRock wrote: Disagree completely. If you want a copy, ask if they would be ok with it and make it clear that if they are not ok with it you have no problem with that. Definitely not a "faux pas."
Lol. No, no, and no. My recommendations did not say confidential or not confidential. This confidential stuff is bullshit. I'm not going to justify anything else because your post is ridiculousthederangedwang wrote:Castlerock, you may have just royally screwed up your applications.CastleRock wrote:Already did it, with several professors. None of them had a problem with it and most of them saw it as normal. And on top of it I did not have a close relationship with any of them.schooner wrote:You're creating a very awkward situation for your recommender. YOU may feel fine with it, but very likely your recommender will not. That is why this is a major faux pas. Don't do it.CastleRock wrote: Disagree completely. If you want a copy, ask if they would be ok with it and make it clear that if they are not ok with it you have no problem with that. Definitely not a "faux pas."
Firstly, you need good LOR's and since you already said you did not have close relationships with them, your LOR's may not be the best you could have gotten
Secondly and most importantly....did they tell you the difference between confidential and non-confidential LOR's? If they decided to show you their LOR, then that means they wrote, on your LOR, that is was NOT a confidential recommendation. Which means, you have royally screwed yourself over.
A non-confidential letter is virtually worthless since the ad-comm do not know if the LOR is candid and written without pressure.
On second read over, this is a flame, right?thederangedwang wrote:Castlerock, you may have just royally screwed up your applications.CastleRock wrote:Already did it, with several professors. None of them had a problem with it and most of them saw it as normal. And on top of it I did not have a close relationship with any of them.schooner wrote:You're creating a very awkward situation for your recommender. YOU may feel fine with it, but very likely your recommender will not. That is why this is a major faux pas. Don't do it.CastleRock wrote: Disagree completely. If you want a copy, ask if they would be ok with it and make it clear that if they are not ok with it you have no problem with that. Definitely not a "faux pas."
Firstly, you need good LOR's and since you already said you did not have close relationships with them, your LOR's may not be the best you could have gotten
Secondly and most importantly....did they tell you the difference between confidential and non-confidential LOR's? If they decided to show you their LOR, then that means they wrote, on your LOR, that is was NOT a confidential recommendation. Which means, you have royally screwed yourself over.
A non-confidential letter is virtually worthless since the ad-comm do not know if the LOR is candid and written without pressure.
This is just the spewing of secondhand bs. It's far more valuable to get confidential letters, but not as big a deal as you make it out to be. the rest of the post is just silly.thederangedwang wrote:Castlerock, you may have just royally screwed up your applications.CastleRock wrote:Already did it, with several professors. None of them had a problem with it and most of them saw it as normal. And on top of it I did not have a close relationship with any of them.schooner wrote:You're creating a very awkward situation for your recommender. YOU may feel fine with it, but very likely your recommender will not. That is why this is a major faux pas. Don't do it.CastleRock wrote: Disagree completely. If you want a copy, ask if they would be ok with it and make it clear that if they are not ok with it you have no problem with that. Definitely not a "faux pas."
Firstly, you need good LOR's and since you already said you did not have close relationships with them, your LOR's may not be the best you could have gotten
Secondly and most importantly....did they tell you the difference between confidential and non-confidential LOR's? If they decided to show you their LOR, then that means they wrote, on your LOR, that is was NOT a confidential recommendation. Which means, you have royally screwed yourself over.
A non-confidential letter is virtually worthless since the ad-comm do not know if the LOR is candid and written without pressure.