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OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:46 pm
by Ineedhelp!
I understand that we all are entitled to our opinion but was the flame and trolls statement really warranted? I was really looking for some advice. I am terrified of a misconduct mark being put on my file indefinetly for soemthing i didnt do. I appologise if i wasted anyone time, but this situation and real and i am not flaming or trolling. Anyway for the ones that provided valuable insight thanks alot, i really appreciate it. For the other please keep it moving. Thank you! I have reported it to the police. I am a bit clamer not and thinking more rational. It really isnt all that bad since i have the proofs, i will present them to lsac and see what the outcome is.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:49 pm
by Helicio
If you're telling the truth--and it was really you instead of your husband--I honestly don't know how to help you. Maybe tell this same story to LSAC?
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:51 pm
by ilovesf
I don't know what you should do about your school situation, but I really hope you're going to divorce him.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:52 pm
by booboo
Remain calm, and act accordingly. Explain the situation to every party involved. Just be honest, but be prepared for an uphill battle. I feel that it may be easier to sway the schools involved into believing your story, but the LSAC is always a mystery when it comes to issues.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:54 pm
by Kilpatrick
First thing I would do is talk to LSAC and to your T20 school and explain everything that happened in detail.
Second thing I would do is find a divorce lawyer
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:54 pm
by Teoeo
Start by calming down. I would forget this cycle and re-apply after you have cleared this up (unless your T20 school is still ok with you attending). Also, punch your husband in the balls for being such a douche.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:54 pm
by sidhesadie
You need to move out and file for a divorce and an order of protection. If you go to LSAC and the school you actually want to attend and explain your situation, having done all that, you might have a chance. If you're still married to him, living with him, etc, no one is going to believe you.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:55 pm
by BlueDiamond
people took this seriously?
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:55 pm
by flexityflex86
I'm sure you're being honest, but from LSAC's point of view, you're kind of red handed, which means you'd need to prove your innocence rather than vice versa. It would be easy to totally mess up then blame it on a SO, who takes the blame as they don't care what LSAC thinks of them if they are not in law. You really should have contacted the school before they contacted LSAC. I feel like individual schools will be more easily accessible, and more understanding than a big corporation.
I don't understand what your husband would have had to gain from this.... And why he wouldn't ask you first. It just doesn't make a lot of sense.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:55 pm
by Teoeo
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Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 5:57 pm
by flexityflex86
i hope the emotional distress has hurt your grammar and writing skills. you got into a t-20?
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:00 pm
by AreJay711
The most important thing is that the school you want to attend knows. Fuck the LSAC and the T4. As long as the school you are attending is fine it doesn't matter what they think so deal with that first. Then deal with the LSAC and see what that leads too. A police report could only help the situation even if later you decide to not pursue the charges.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:01 pm
by Ineedhelp!
Guys why would i be lying? I am all set to attend a top-20 school why would i want to attend this tier4? I am looking to divorce him. He wanted me to stay here thats why he did it, he admitted that if i had got the schoclarship from them he though he could sway me to stay since i dont have one at the top-20 school i'm about to attend and i'm very debt averse. I'm freaking out! i kicked him out, were started fighting. How could he do this his your wife? Im numb and baffled.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:03 pm
by ilovesf
flexityflex86 wrote:i hope the emotional distress has hurt your grammar and writing skills. you got into a t-20?
This was actually one of my first thoughts after reading the post.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:03 pm
by Ineedhelp!
flexityflex86 wrote:i hope the emotional distress has hurt your grammar and writing skills. you got into a t-20?
Jackass get the fuck off if you cant give valuable advice, you asshole. I dont need that right now. I said pardon my typo and grammer i'm not trying to impress anyone right now, my life is at stake.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:04 pm
by flexityflex86
Ineedhelp! wrote:Guys why would i be lying? I am all set to attend a top-20 school why would i want to attend this tier4? I am looking to divorce him. He wanted me to stay here thats why he did it, he admitted that if i had got the schoclarship from them he though he could sway me to stay since i dont have one at the top-20 school i'm about to attend and i'm very debt averse. I'm freaking out! i kicked him out, were started fighting. How could he do this his your wife? Im numb and baffled.
what i don't understand is why you wouldn't want your wife to go to law school out of state. you could fly down on weekends sometimes to see her, hopefully she'll make some real money and you don't even have to listen to her fetch, fetch, fetch every night. seems ideal.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:05 pm
by loblaw
Call a divorce lawyer AND report his ass.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:05 pm
by AreJay711
BTW, If you ever feel lonely with your husband gone, hit me up
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:06 pm
by Ineedhelp!
flexityflex86 wrote:Ineedhelp! wrote:Guys why would i be lying? I am all set to attend a top-20 school why would i want to attend this tier4? I am looking to divorce him. He wanted me to stay here thats why he did it, he admitted that if i had got the schoclarship from them he though he could sway me to stay since i dont have one at the top-20 school i'm about to attend and i'm very debt averse. I'm freaking out! i kicked him out, were started fighting. How could he do this his your wife? Im numb and baffled.
what i don't understand is why you wouldn't want your wife to go to law school out of state. you could fly down on weekends sometimes to see her, hopefully she'll make some real money and you don't even have to listen to her fetch, fetch, fetch every night. seems ideal.
Thats because he's very insecure and possesive. What dont you get? I'm not trying to be mean flexity, i actually like you and read lots of your post but please be nice, i'm terrified right now.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:07 pm
by BlueDiamond
this is the wrong crowd to be asking for this kind of advice
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:07 pm
by flexityflex86
Ineedhelp! wrote:flexityflex86 wrote:i hope the emotional distress has hurt your grammar and writing skills. you got into a t-20?
Jackass get the fuck off if you cant give valuable advice, you asshole. I dont need that right now. I said pardon my typo and grammer i'm not trying to impress anyone right now, my life is at stake.
relax. take a deep breath, and don't take things out of perspective. i may be an asshole, but i am not a jackass.
the poster who said contacting the school is credited, but i'd suggest going to LSAC first as the school might just say, "you know what? this is sketch - we don't want to deal with this" and take away your offer.
the main thing is it just seems weird your husband would try to negotiate scholarships for you without telling you, and i personally would not believe that would happen in a happily married couple. it could, but it seems under 50% to be the truth.
however, you said he's really needy and was trying to trick you into staying. i actually think filing for divorce along with his admission and letters from contacts (maybe a marriage counselor or other people who know you from before and have credibility [not your mom or best friend]) might be a really compelling case.
i don't think the LSAC wants to screw anyone they think is innocent.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:09 pm
by flexityflex86
Ineedhelp! wrote:flexityflex86 wrote:Ineedhelp! wrote:Guys why would i be lying? I am all set to attend a top-20 school why would i want to attend this tier4? I am looking to divorce him. He wanted me to stay here thats why he did it, he admitted that if i had got the schoclarship from them he though he could sway me to stay since i dont have one at the top-20 school i'm about to attend and i'm very debt averse. I'm freaking out! i kicked him out, were started fighting. How could he do this his your wife? Im numb and baffled.
what i don't understand is why you wouldn't want your wife to go to law school out of state. you could fly down on weekends sometimes to see her, hopefully she'll make some real money and you don't even have to listen to her fetch, fetch, fetch every night. seems ideal.
Thats because he's very insecure and possesive. What dont you get? I'm not trying to be mean flexity, i actually like you and read lots of your post but please be nice, i'm terrified right now.
well i can relate as i am insecure and possessive just about new york jets football. women are a great source of love and affection for the weekends, but kill the hustle. i am very flattered that you like me. between you, my mother, my girlfriend and my girlfriend's mother, i now have four people that like me and five if you count my dog.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:09 pm
by Mickey Quicknumbers
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:11 pm
by Ineedhelp!
flexityflex86 wrote:Ineedhelp! wrote:flexityflex86 wrote:i hope the emotional distress has hurt your grammar and writing skills. you got into a t-20?
Jackass get the fuck off if you cant give valuable advice, you asshole. I dont need that right now. I said pardon my typo and grammer i'm not trying to impress anyone right now, my life is at stake.
relax. take a deep breath, and don't take things out of perspective. i may be an asshole, but i am not a jackass.
the poster who said contacting the school is credited, but i'd suggest going to LSAC first as the school might just say, "you know what? this is sketch - we don't want to deal with this" and take away your offer.
the main thing is it just seems weird your husband would try to negotiate scholarships for you without telling you, and i personally would not believe that would happen in a happily married couple. it could, but it seems under 50% to be the truth.
Thank you! I'm sorry for calling you that. I know you are not that.
however, you said he's really needy and was trying to trick you into staying. i actually think filing for divorce along with his admission and letters from contacts (maybe a marriage counselor or other people who know you from before and have credibility [not your mom or best friend]) might be a really compelling case.
i don't think the LSAC wants to screw anyone they think is innocent.
Re: OMG Please help me!!!
Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:12 pm
by BlueDiamond
how nice is it to have an SO that is willing to cover for your bad negotiation tactics?
