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"Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:13 pm
by powderpuff
I just received a copy of a very strong and compelling LOR from a professor which he has already sent on to LSAC. He refers to me as "Mrs. X." I am married . . . but I go by "Ms." because I am an independent person who happens to be in a marriage. My point is, I don't want law school admissions people to assume that I will earn my law degree and then drop off the radar to raise kids and be "Mrs.X." In fact, my husband would very much like to be a professional house hubby. Is this a big deal or am I overeacting?
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:15 pm
by Deuce
You're overreacting, Mrs. X.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:15 pm
by thepunisher24
I hope this is a joke.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:16 pm
by Nom Sawyer
powderpuff wrote:I just received a copy of a very strong and compelling LOR from a professor which he has already sent on to LSAC. He refers to me as "Mrs. X." I am married . . . but I go by "Ms." because I am an independent person who happens to be in a marriage. My point is, I don't want law school admissions people to assume that I will earn my law degree and then drop off the radar to raise kids and be "Mrs.X." In fact, my husband would very much like to be a professional house hubby. Is this a big deal or am I overeacting?
hahaha... totally over-reacting.. I highly doubt any adcom is going to be like, "This candidate is great, except.. what's this? a "Mrs."? Guess she's just going to law school for kicks, DING."
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:17 pm
by powderpuff
LOL. I think whether spoken or not, law school adcomms want all of their students to go out and make a name for themselves (and for the school). I just don't want them to have this impression that I am married to some wealthy guy who is just sending me to law school so I will have something to do for the next 3 years and then sit on my duff for the next 20, living off his riches. Ha!
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:17 pm
by Kurt Cobain
Just sue schools that don't let you in for illegal discrimination.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:18 pm
by oneforship
If you really want to show your independence for the adcoms, you should file for a divorce.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:18 pm
by 09042014
powderpuff wrote:LOL. I think whether spoken or not, law school adcomms want all of their students to go out and make a name for themselves (and for the school). I just don't want them to have this impression that I am married to some wealthy guy who is just sending me to law school so I will have something to do for the next 3 years and then sit on my duff for the next 20, living off his riches. Ha!
You Misses, are retarded.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:18 pm
by Nom Sawyer
powderpuff wrote:LOL. I think whether spoken or not, law school adcomms want all of their students to go out and make a name for themselves (and for the school). I just don't want them to have this impression that I am married to some wealthy guy who is just sending me to law school so I will have something to do for the next 3 years and then sit on my duff for the next 20, living off his riches. Ha!
I believe your best response to this problem is to right a targeted PS about women's rights and how you will force your husband into a traditional female gender role while you go out and be the breadwinner.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:19 pm
by manbearwig
powderpuff wrote:LOL. I think whether spoken or not, law school adcomms want all of their students to go out and make a name for themselves (and for the school). I just don't want them to have this impression that I am married to some wealthy guy who is just sending me to law school so I will have something to do for the next 3 years and then sit on my duff for the next 20, living off his riches. Ha!
I hope you realize how insulting this is to the millions of married women who choose both to be a "Mrs." and to be a professional.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:19 pm
by d34d9823
If you're just upset because it jars you, get over yourself.
If you honestly think it will affect your chances of admission, I don't think it would be out of place to call him, explain that admissions officers are crazy flaming liberals and will look negatively on such a wholesome, American appellation, and ask him to re-submit it.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:19 pm
by stratocophic
I hope to God OP is flame.
Nom Sawyer wrote:powderpuff wrote:I just received a copy of a very strong and compelling LOR from a professor which he has already sent on to LSAC. He refers to me as "Mrs. X." I am married . . . but I go by "Ms." because I am an independent person who happens to be in a marriage. My point is, I don't want law school admissions people to assume that I will earn my law degree and then drop off the radar to raise kids and be "Mrs.X." In fact, my husband would very much like to be a professional house hubby. Is this a big deal or am I overeacting?
hahaha... totally over-reacting.. I highly doubt any adcom is going to be like, "
This candidate is great, except.. what's this? a "Mrs."? Guess she's just going to law school for kicks, DING."
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powderpuff wrote:LOL. I think whether spoken or not, law school adcomms want all of their students to go out and make a name for themselves (and for the school). I just don't want them to have this impression that I am married to some wealthy guy who is just sending me to law school so I will have something to do for the next 3 years and then sit on my duff for the next 20, living off his riches. Ha!
That seems like a retarded assumption to make. LOL I'LL JUS GO SPEND 3 YEARS WORKIN MAH ASS OFF FOR 200K SOUNDS GRATE!
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:20 pm
by thepunisher24
oneforship wrote:If you really want to show your independence for the adcoms, you should file for a divorce.
This is really the only credited response here.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:21 pm
by powderpuff
manbearwig wrote:powderpuff wrote:LOL. I think whether spoken or not, law school adcomms want all of their students to go out and make a name for themselves (and for the school). I just don't want them to have this impression that I am married to some wealthy guy who is just sending me to law school so I will have something to do for the next 3 years and then sit on my duff for the next 20, living off his riches. Ha!
I hope you realize how insulting this is to the millions of married women who choose both to be a "Mrs." and to be a professional.
My insult is aimed toward the old traditional men who seem to think this is the case. Or that a women's place is in the kitchen. Of which, I become a fire hazard.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:21 pm
by stratocophic
thepunisher24 wrote:oneforship wrote:If you really want to show your independence for the adcoms, you should file for a divorce.
This is really the only credited response here.
Don't deny a man his sugar momma, even if she is fiercely, unnecessarily, and idiotically independent.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:22 pm
by powderpuff
Okay - so no big deal then, apparently. Thank you all.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:23 pm
by stratocophic
powderpuff wrote:manbearwig wrote:powderpuff wrote:LOL. I think whether spoken or not, law school adcomms want all of their students to go out and make a name for themselves (and for the school). I just don't want them to have this impression that I am married to some wealthy guy who is just sending me to law school so I will have something to do for the next 3 years and then sit on my duff for the next 20, living off his riches. Ha!
I hope you realize how insulting this is to the millions of married women who choose both to be a "Mrs." and to be a professional.
My insult is aimed toward the old traditional men who seem to think this is the case. Or that a women's place is in the kitchen. Of which, I become a fire hazard.
What, all 3 of them? No one thinks this is a reasonable thing to do, or that people do it.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:23 pm
by Kurt Cobain
powderpuff wrote:manbearwig wrote:powderpuff wrote:LOL. I think whether spoken or not, law school adcomms want all of their students to go out and make a name for themselves (and for the school). I just don't want them to have this impression that I am married to some wealthy guy who is just sending me to law school so I will have something to do for the next 3 years and then sit on my duff for the next 20, living off his riches. Ha!
I hope you realize how insulting this is to the millions of married women who choose both to be a "Mrs." and to be a professional.
My insult is aimed toward the old traditional men who seem to think this is the case. Or that a women's place is in the kitchen. Of which, I become a fire hazard.
You didn't write a specific insult, your whole vibe is just insulting.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:23 pm
by powderpuff
On the flipside does it show a sense of maturity? I'm a non-traditional student, etc.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:24 pm
by manbearwig
powderpuff wrote:manbearwig wrote:powderpuff wrote:LOL. I think whether spoken or not, law school adcomms want all of their students to go out and make a name for themselves (and for the school). I just don't want them to have this impression that I am married to some wealthy guy who is just sending me to law school so I will have something to do for the next 3 years and then sit on my duff for the next 20, living off his riches. Ha!
I hope you realize how insulting this is to the millions of married women who choose both to be a "Mrs." and to be a professional.
My insult is aimed toward the old traditional men who seem to think this is the case. Or that a women's place is in the kitchen. Of which, I become a fire hazard.
...Are you retroactively applying to law schools in the pre-1960s South?
(People like you give feminists a bad name.)
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:24 pm
by 09042014
powderpuff wrote:On the flipside does it show a sense of maturity? I'm a non-traditional student, etc.
Do you think Admissions is going to do literary analysis on your letter of recommendation? I doubt they even read most of them.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:24 pm
by hellokitty
This is a gross overreaction. It's not a big deal at all. Relax. No one's even thinking about that but you.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:25 pm
by trialjunky
Whoa, way to make a mountain out of a molehill Mrs. Fucking Retard...pardon me, Ms. Fucking Retard
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:25 pm
by powderpuff
manbearwig wrote:powderpuff wrote:manbearwig wrote:powderpuff wrote:LOL. I think whether spoken or not, law school adcomms want all of their students to go out and make a name for themselves (and for the school). I just don't want them to have this impression that I am married to some wealthy guy who is just sending me to law school so I will have something to do for the next 3 years and then sit on my duff for the next 20, living off his riches. Ha!
I hope you realize how insulting this is to the millions of married women who choose both to be a "Mrs." and to be a professional.
My insult is aimed toward the old traditional men who seem to think this is the case. Or that a women's place is in the kitchen. Of which, I become a fire hazard.
...Are you retroactively applying to law schools in the pre-1960s South?
(People like you give feminists a bad name.)
I don't understand - I'm not degrading the situation or feminists. My fear is that I will seen as a "Mrs." and not an independent woman.
Re: "Mrs."
Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 4:26 pm
by Kurt Cobain
powderpuff wrote:On the flipside does it show a sense of maturity? I'm a non-traditional student, etc.
You maturity is clearly lacking if you let a little "Ms. vs. Mrs." confusion get you all up in arms.