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Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:14 pm
by transferme
professional school...

Wouldn't that be a really bad thing to discuss in a personal statement? What do you think?

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:16 pm
by vanwinkle
If you're talking about being physically assaulted by a classmate and how this experience shocked you and changed your view on life so much that it's leading you to go to law school now, then possibly, yes.

If you're talking about how campus administrators were "bullying" you by not letting you ban gays or blacks from your registered student organization, then not so much.

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:16 pm
by quickquestionthanks
Wouldn't talk about it. Bullying is pretty common in grade school, but if you're getting bullied at this age, it could be a sign that you have a "victim" personality

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:18 pm
by Wooster33
quickquestionthanks wrote:Wouldn't talk about it. Bullying is pretty common in grade school, but if you're getting bullied at this age, it could be a sign that you have a "victim" personality
+1 without knowing more.

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:19 pm
by 03121202698008
Wooster33 wrote:
quickquestionthanks wrote:Wouldn't talk about it. Bullying is pretty common in grade school, but if you're getting bullied at this age, it could be a sign that you have a "victim" personality
+1 without knowing more.
+1,000,000. You generally want to avoid anything in your PS that makes it look like you weak or unable to work through problems with other people. That is, after all, most of being a lawyer.

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:24 pm
by presh
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Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:26 pm
by reverendt
As a future lawyer, you should be learning how to push others around....

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:28 pm
by cartercl
:shock: Who gets bullied in undergrad? You asking about grad and professional school sort of implies that you got bullied there too. Unless you are a little person or have a physical defect I wouldn't talk about it.
quickquestionthanks wrote:Wouldn't talk about it. Bullying is pretty common in grade school, but if you're getting bullied at this age, it could be a sign that you have a "victim" personality
+1

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:28 pm
by cartercl
presh wrote:
blhoward2 wrote:
Wooster33 wrote:
quickquestionthanks wrote:Wouldn't talk about it. Bullying is pretty common in grade school, but if you're getting bullied at this age, it could be a sign that you have a "victim" personality
+1 without knowing more.
+1,000,000. You generally want to avoid anything in your PS that makes it look like you weak or unable to work through problems with other people. That is, after all, most of being a lawyer.
On the other hand, if your PS is about how you reclaimed your dignity by taking karate lessons from a wise old Asian man who made you wax his car . . .
Awesome! I'm watching the Karate Kid right now :lol:

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 11:55 pm
by Grizz
Wooster33 wrote:
quickquestionthanks wrote:Wouldn't talk about it. Bullying is pretty common in grade school, but if you're getting bullied at this age, it could be a sign that you have a "victim" personality
+1 without knowing more.
another +1

In general, a risky PS is a no-go. If you write this someone might really like it, and some people might think you can't work out personal problems. I would not do this.

I would like to know more details though.

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 12:03 am
by mazzini
I think this would be an unattractive PS for most admissions personnel. Be strong, state exactly why you are a conqueror and not the conquered. Even if your PS is about you overcoming your bullying I think that the fact that you allowed yourself to be bullied well into your professional academic career is still a turn off.

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 12:08 am
by BaiAilian2013
quickquestionthanks wrote:Wouldn't talk about it. Bullying is pretty common in grade school, but if you're getting bullied at this age, it could be a sign that you have a "victim" personality
+1 but for slightly different reason... I think a lot of people would, consciously or otherwise, assume that anyone getting bullied in college and beyond has something terribly wrong with them and must somehow deserve it. There's a pretty strong instinct to make sense of the world, even if that means making unfair assumptions. I wouldn't risk it.

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 12:36 am
by vanwinkle
Any time someone starts a thread with "Serious question about", it's a pretty sure bet it isn't.

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Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 12:37 am
by APimpNamedSlickback
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Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 12:41 am
by vanwinkle
APimpNamedSlickback wrote:i plan on being a bully in law school. i can only hope that one of my victims rights an essay of some sort about my exploits.
QFP.

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 12:59 am
by pugalicious
quickquestionthanks wrote:Wouldn't talk about it. Bullying is pretty common in grade school, but if you're getting bullied at this age, it could be a sign that you have a "victim" personality
+84,000

I now want to know more about the situation so that I can side with whoever is "bullying" you.

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 1:00 am
by hoopsguy6
Please tell the whole story. This ought to be good.

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 1:46 am
by JustDude
transferme wrote:professional school...

Wouldn't that be a really bad thing to discuss in a personal statement? What do you think?
Pyke did it

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 6:11 pm
by MentalGopher
How in the world do you get bullied in undergrad, grad, or professional school? No, really, how?

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 6:17 pm
by A'nold
MentalGopher wrote:How in the world do you get bullied in undergrad, grad, or professional school? No, really, how?
ITE: people bully op. 8)

Re: Serious question about getting bullied in undergrad, grad or

Posted: Mon May 17, 2010 3:35 pm
by F458JE
reverendt wrote:As a future lawyer, you should be learning how to push others around....
:lol: This made me LOL! :lol: