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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby IAFG » Tue May 18, 2010 12:46 pm

Desert Fox wrote:
IAFG wrote:i don't get who would dump someone she was living with without an exit strategy/moving out.


It happens way too often, and I don't get it. If I ever move in with a woman again, I'm not going to be on the lease.

it makes me think she has a plan to live elsewhere.

also, better to be the one on the lease and kick her out.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby d34d9823 » Tue May 18, 2010 12:46 pm

Dude, seriously, she's got you by the balls. You either need to kick her out or leave yourself. Taking a break isn't a bad thing. Doing it in the same apartment is madness.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby lostjake » Tue May 18, 2010 12:46 pm

jr8966 wrote:3rd person is my friend. We all moved to DC from TX.


Prime suspect.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby BigFatPanda » Tue May 18, 2010 12:48 pm

lostjake wrote:
jr8966 wrote:3rd person is my friend. We all moved to DC from TX.


Prime suspect.


Or maybe jr8966's next gf

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby 09042014 » Tue May 18, 2010 12:48 pm

IAFG wrote:
Desert Fox wrote:
IAFG wrote:i don't get who would dump someone she was living with without an exit strategy/moving out.


It happens way too often, and I don't get it. If I ever move in with a woman again, I'm not going to be on the lease.

it makes me think she has a plan to live elsewhere.

also, better to be the one on the lease and kick her out.


No, it's better to be able to pack up and leave. Otherwise I might run into a situation where she's pleading about not being able to find a place, and what am I going to do call the cops? I'm not even sure if it's legal to boot her, esp if she was paying rent.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby holydonkey » Tue May 18, 2010 12:49 pm

Agree with everyone saying get her to move out.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby IAFG » Tue May 18, 2010 12:49 pm

Desert Fox wrote:No, it's better to be able to pack up and leave. Otherwise I might run into a situation where she's pleading about not being able to find a place, and what am I going to do call the cops? I'm not even sure if it's legal to boot her, esp if she was paying rent.

i would take her shit to a friend's house. yeah she could call the cops but will she really have the patience and will to fight you on it?

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby 09042014 » Tue May 18, 2010 12:50 pm

IAFG wrote:
Desert Fox wrote:No, it's better to be able to pack up and leave. Otherwise I might run into a situation where she's pleading about not being able to find a place, and what am I going to do call the cops? I'm not even sure if it's legal to boot her, esp if she was paying rent.

i would take her shit to a friend's house. yeah she could call the cops but will she really have the patience and will to fight you on it?


Girls live for that shit.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby WWAD » Tue May 18, 2010 12:51 pm

Desert Fox wrote:
IAFG wrote:
Desert Fox wrote:
IAFG wrote:i don't get who would dump someone she was living with without an exit strategy/moving out.


It happens way too often, and I don't get it. If I ever move in with a woman again, I'm not going to be on the lease.

it makes me think she has a plan to live elsewhere.

also, better to be the one on the lease and kick her out.


No, it's better to be able to pack up and leave. Otherwise I might run into a situation where she's pleading about not being able to find a place, and what am I going to do call the cops? I'm not even sure if it's legal to boot her, esp if she was paying rent.


So true. Moved out once over the weekend while the gf was away and didn't even leave info. She wanted space, she got it.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby jmhendri » Tue May 18, 2010 12:51 pm

holydonkey wrote:Agree with everyone saying get her to move out.


Start acting creepy, stop cleaning and bathing, maybe take a leak on her bed. She'll move out of her own volition.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby Bert » Tue May 18, 2010 12:52 pm

Desert Fox wrote:
IAFG wrote:i don't get who would dump someone she was living with without an exit strategy/moving out.


It happens way too often, and I don't get it. If I ever move in with a woman again, I'm not going to be on the lease.


Actually, don't put her on these lease. To much of a headache being the one that needs to move out.

EDIT: and now that I have finished catching up, never mind that. I have done my share of midnight moves to get out of bad situations when I wasn't the one on the lease.
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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby Bert » Tue May 18, 2010 12:53 pm

And now that I have caught up on this thread, I hate to say it, but this lady seems like more of a dead end the more you write. If she has emotional issues, then she needs to get over them, but you shouldn't let her problems destroy your future. She is doing what is best for her and you need to do the same. There will not be a "you two" until she is ready for it, and it would suck for you to have ruined your chances at law school because of her problems, while waiting for "you two" again.

EDITED a couple times for spelling/clarity.
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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby lostjake » Tue May 18, 2010 12:55 pm

If your ex-girlfriend comes home at 3pm

Pay someone extremely hot to come over at 3:30 where you will give her a pair of cheap panties that you bought at walmart. She will say sorry for leaving these! And go out the door. This will cheer you up.
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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby oberlin08 » Tue May 18, 2010 12:55 pm

If you can afford it, find a place to stay like a really really cheap room somewhere that you can rent month to month, and live there until after the LSAT, and then after the test, come back deal with the ending/ended relationship, living situation etc.

It's really close to the test, getting her to move out might be really emotionally stressful.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby Dr. Strangelove » Tue May 18, 2010 12:57 pm

OP, do what you think is right BUT don't let her control you.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby romothesavior » Tue May 18, 2010 12:58 pm

My girlfriend and I (of 4 years) broke up about three weeks before the LSAT. This girl was the one... or so I thought. I had started saving money for the ring, she was gonna come with me to law school, etc. Our breakup was pretty tough, and it was even tougher because she started seeing some guy just a few weeks later (obviously our four years together meant a lot to her :roll: ).

The bottom line is this: girls are gonna come and go. This LSAT score is going to determine your law school, and that is something that will affect you forever. I know it is very hard to study for the LSAT when your whole personal life is in limbo, but try viewing the LSAT and law school in general as an "escape" from these hard times in your life. Quite honestly, moving down to St. Louis and starting law school represents a "fresh start" for me, and I get to put all the heartache and memories aside and move on with my life. If you look at law school the same way, perhaps it will serve as some motivation.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby pugalicious » Tue May 18, 2010 12:59 pm

edit: posted in wrong forum. am an idiot.
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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby lostjake » Tue May 18, 2010 12:59 pm

After said hot girl leaves tell your ex its her turn to wash the sheets. You should do this 2 days before the test. Think about it from now until then, laughing in your mind. This will feed you. This will make you stronger.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby Marionberry » Tue May 18, 2010 1:00 pm

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby bceagles182 » Tue May 18, 2010 1:02 pm

romothesavior wrote:My girlfriend and I (of 4 years) broke up about three weeks before the LSAT. This girl was the one... or so I thought. I had started saving money for the ring, she was gonna come with me to law school, etc. Our breakup was pretty tough, and it was even tougher because she started seeing some guy just a few weeks later (obviously our four years together meant a lot to her :roll: ).

The bottom line is this: girls are gonna come and go. This LSAT score is going to determine your law school, and that is something that will affect you forever. I know it is very hard to study for the LSAT when your whole personal life is in limbo, but try viewing the LSAT and law school in general as an "escape" from these hard times in your life. Quite honestly, moving down to St. Louis and starting law school represents a "fresh start" for me, and I get to put all the heartache and memories aside and move on with my life. If you look at law school the same way, perhaps it will serve as some motivation.


This is pretty much a carbon copy of what happened with me and I'd give the same advice.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby IAFG » Tue May 18, 2010 1:03 pm

seriously OP i don't think you will be ready for this test in June.

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby romothesavior » Tue May 18, 2010 1:04 pm

Also, tell the girl to shit or get off the pot. Don't let her call the shots. She wants some personal/girl time? Fine. But tell her to GTFO if she wants to do it. BE A MAN!

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby kittenmittons » Tue May 18, 2010 1:09 pm

Listen to The Mountain Goats - No Children
Fuck someone else
Fuck the LSAT
????
Profit

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Re: Coping with breakup right before LSAT

Postby beach_terror » Tue May 18, 2010 1:10 pm

kittenmittons wrote:Listen to The Mountain Goats - No Children


hahahaha, that song is win.




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