ze2151 wrote:Kibblesnvick- HUGE +1 to your post, and I can't believe it took 4 pages before someone put up the D.E.N.N.I.S. system!
again, OP- "space" is poor code for "i don't have the guts and common decency to break up with you right now, but i want to." maybe she's waiting to completely cut the cord until after your lease runs up. til then, she'll keep you on the hook for the sake of (what sounds like) a pretty awesome apartment.
dump her. be an absolutely miserable roommate, and win this war of attrition. as many have said, anger plays well on test day. be completely inconsiderate and rude. it will be awesome.
i ran your story by my wife, and before i finished, she cut me off and said "this girl is using him." run your story by 10 women and see what they say.
As a female myself who is in a long term relationship, I can definitely tell you this girl is either a.) too chicken to break up with you outright, b.) the most selfish person ever, or c.) DEFINITELY BOTH A AND B.
You need to stop even thinking about her and start thinking ONLY about the test. I agree with previous posts: use it as an escape from all of the emotional crap! Preferably not in your apartment, but wherever you have to be to make it work. Every time you start to think of her, do a logic game. Every time you want to "sort stuff out and work on it" do some mind-numbing reading comp, and every time you feel sad, do your own logical reasoning and realize she is being a world class biatch for creating this situation weeks before one of the most important tests of your life.
Seriously dude, a year from now (even less than that) you'll look back at this situation and (I hope, for your sake) be SO glad you put that crap to rest and went all out on this test. Take it from someone who knows from experience, doing really well on this test (and you're obviously capable, scoring in the 165+ range) will transform your life in a way this girl will only wish she could. Good luck to you!! In fact, I hope you never even read this post because you have stopped caring about this for the time being, and therefore stopped reading this thread. Kick some LSAT ass, and then move out of your apartment.