brinicolec wrote:dannyswo wrote:Go to a bar. Walk up to someone you're attracted to. Say hello.
Does this actually work for people?
Side note: A woman approaches you at a bar, offers to buy you a drink. Weird, or attractive?
It's great if people offer to buy you a drink. Attractive.
It does work. The key is to know your audience. Go to bars where people go to meet other people. Be friendly, but not pushy. Pay attention to body language. Go out with a group of friends and have a good time. Don't put any pressure on yourself and embrace rejection, because it's really not a bad thing at all. Keep in mind that meeting people works best for really, really attractive people, but there are plenty of people who are going to find you attractive regardless of whether you look like a leading man/woman in Hollywood. Go do things you like to do, go to bars you like, and you'll find people who you have things in common with.