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Re: Unusual First Name
I wouldn't see it as a bad thing. I mean, you can't be blamed for your parents' choice of name, right? I would actually see it as a plus, since you'll have instant name recognition.syd625 wrote:This may be a bit of a silly question, but here it goes. I have an unusual first name (in the vein of Apple, North, and Candy) and don't know if I need to consider changing it for professional reasons, ie for hiring purposes or firm life. Do any of you have non-traditional names, or know someone who does, and, if so, how did you/they handle it? Thanks!
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Hey at least your name isn't Moon Unit or Dweezil
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Makes you memorable...hopefully it doesn't sound like a stripper.syd625 wrote:This may be a bit of a silly question, but here it goes. I have an unusual first name (in the vein of Apple, North, and Candy) and don't know if I need to consider changing it for professional reasons, ie for hiring purposes or firm life. Do any of you have non-traditional names, or know someone who does, and, if so, how did you/they handle it? Thanks!
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- bananasplit19
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Re: Unusual First Name
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q7URSM_ShQQsyd625 wrote:Someone did say it sounded vaguely stripperesque once. I'm not quite sure what my parents were thinking.
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After watching that, I'm trying to figure out why I haven't seen that movie yet.bananasplit19 wrote:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q7URSM_ShQQsyd625 wrote:Someone did say it sounded vaguely stripperesque once. I'm not quite sure what my parents were thinking.
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Just use your initials dude. Have you looked at a firm website before?
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Tons of people use initials. But it's hard for us to know whether the name would be damaging without knowing what it is. "Apple" is way better than "Candy".
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Re: Unusual First Name
I've heard of people changing African American sounding names (I believe it's known as "whitening the resume" ), due to employment discrimination.syd625 wrote:This may be a bit of a silly question, but here it goes. I have an unusual first name (in the vein of Apple, North, and Candy) and don't know if I need to consider changing it for professional reasons, ie for hiring purposes or firm life. Do any of you have non-traditional names, or know someone who does, and, if so, how did you/they handle it? Thanks!
I wouldn't think this would happen at all in biglaw, but in other industries employers will sometimes not even consider a candidate if their resume has an ethnic sounding name. Lots of studies on this. It's sad and disgusting, but a fact of life in America.
I'm not sure if there're any parallels to your case, though, but just thought I'd mention it.
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I was going to add that my sister teaches middle school in a heavily minority-populated and relatively poor school district and she mentioned that the students' names were definitely much more different than in the previous district she worked in.syd625 wrote:Someone did say it sounded vaguely stripperesque once. I'm not quite sure what my parents were thinking.
This totally sucks, but she actually said some of them had a "stereotypical" stripper feel to them (these were actual names she mentioned):
Mercedes, Lexus, Destiny, Unique, Princess, and a few others.
Personally, I wouldn't judge a person by their name (or an other superficial characteristic like race, religion, etc.), but some people do make assumptions about you. It's tough, because I would imagine that changing your name to fit someone else's preferences and preconceptions might feel like a kind of betrayal.
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Re: Unusual First Name
I don't think "Candy" isn't that bad and I've met some attorneys with that name.
I also don't think "North" is terrible unless Kanye is your father
I also don't think "North" is terrible unless Kanye is your father
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